Tolerance, human liberation.

Otto 2022-03-26 08:01:01

Pingyao came back and slept hard for two days. Watched Tolerance today and saw fireproof.
When I was in Pingyao, whether it was in Shuanglin Temple, Qingxu Temple, or palm reading in Taiyuan, although I didn't say anything and considered myself a gentle and graceful girl, the gentlemen all advised me to be tolerant. . It happened that on my way to Pingyao, I was also reading the book Tolerance. Too coincidental. So let's chat together.

In fact, the fireproof plot can be regarded as old-fashioned. The preaching of Christianity is a bit blunt, and when I was young, I would definitely laugh at this too old-fashioned.
However, after all, I am old now. While watching, I burst into tears. While thinking about it, they all say that falling in love is easy and difficult to get along with. Since you have already held someone's hand, why should you let go. For whatever reason.
What kind of marriage will I have in the future, when I encounter these kinds of crises, can I guide my heart, get out of the predicament, and say to that person: welcome to the new normal.

As a Sun in Sagittarius, Moon in Shepherd She is a girl with type O blood, and her whole body is full of fire, inside and out. Pinch to be strong, heroism, clear right and wrong, impatience, keenness, straightforwardness... These words are all occupied, and none of them fall.
It is said that character determines destiny. I have no doubt that the above characteristics will cause my life to have many more ups and downs than others out of thin air. Especially marriage. Just look at my dad. What's more, I'm still a girl, and everyone wants their daughter's home to be as gentle as water.
Frankly, I don't plan to change my personality too much. Such as strong, straightforward and the like. I always thought these were virtues. They make me tired and miserable, but my life exists because of it.

But I have to finish this life and hope that I will be happy.
The way to liberation, I think, should be as Fang Long said. tolerant. Tolerance leads humanity to liberation. Emancipation of the mind. ultimate freedom. Physical and mental relaxation.
In fact, in fireproof, tolerance is the turning point of everything. Or love.

Reflect more on yourself and be considerate of others. It's okay to be strong, but you should only put harsh requirements on yourself.
Listen quickly, speak slowly. Don't accuse the other party with bad words - even when you have complaints in your heart, you should think about the other party's position and why it is so. Maybe the other person didn't mean to make you angry. Is it too much, or is there a misunderstanding. When misunderstandings occur, communication is king.
There is a continuous improvement process.

lifetime. Pick a person. Then keep going, and grow old together. Never leave your partner. If you encounter problems, slowly break in. We grow old happily together.

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  • Delmer 2022-03-30 09:01:12

    Male pig's feet are too hard, female pig's feet are too vase

  • Delmer 2022-04-02 09:01:15

    Really not forced preaching?

Fireproof quotes

  • Catherine Holt: What are you doing?

    Caleb Holt: I see you left me no pizza.

    Catherine Holt: Caleb, I just lit that candle. I like the way it smells.

    Caleb Holt: Well, I don't! Did you leave me any dinner at all?

    Catherine Holt: I assumed you were eating with Michael.

    Caleb Holt: Does it not occur to you that there are two people living in this house and both of them need to eat?

    Catherine Holt: You know what, Caleb, if you would communicate with me, maybe I can have something for you.

    Caleb Holt: Why do you have to make everything so difficult?

    Catherine Holt: Oh, I'm making everything difficult? Seems to me like I'm carrying the weight around here while you're off doing your own thing.

    Caleb Holt: Excuse me? I'm the one working out there to pay this mortgage, and I pay for both of the cars.

    Catherine Holt: Yeah, that's all you do! I pay for all of our bills with my salary!

    Caleb Holt: Which you agreed to do. That's fair! Do you not like this house? Do you not like your car?

    Catherine Holt: Oh, Caleb, who takes care of this house? Me! Who washes all the clothes? Me! Who gets all the groceries? Me! Not to mention that I'm helping my parents every weekend! You know I've got all this pressure on me, and the only thing you ever do for anybody is for yourself!

    Caleb Holt: Let me tell you something: you don't know the first thing about pressure. All right, you think I put out house fires for myself? Or rush to car wrecks at 2AM for myself? Or pull a child's body out of a lake for myself? You have no idea what I go through!

    Catherine Holt: Oh, yeah, but what do you do around here other than watch TV and waste time on the Internet? You know what? If looking at that trash is how you get fulfilled, that's fine, but I will not compete with it!

    Caleb Holt: Well, I sure don't get it from you!

    Catherine Holt: And you won't! Because you care more about saving for your stupid boat and pleasing yourself than you ever did about me!

    Caleb Holt: SHUT UP! I'M SICK OF YOU! YOU DISRESPECTFUL, UNGRATEFUL, SELFISH WOMAN!

    Catherine Holt: I'm not selfish...

    Caleb Holt: HOW DARE YOU SAY THAT TO ME! YOU CONSTANTLY NAG ME AND YOU DRAIN THE LIFE OUT OF ME! I'M TIRED OF IT! IF YOU CAN'T GIVE ME THE RESPECT I DESERVE... LOOK AT ME! THEN WHAT'S THE POINT OF THIS MARRIAGE?

    Catherine Holt: I want out. I just want out.

    Caleb Holt: If you want out, THAT'S FINE WITH ME!

  • Latasha Brown: Honey, I agree with you. You gotta get out. He don't deserve you.

    Deidra Harris: You can say that again. A real man's got to be a hero to his wife before he can be to anybody else, or he ain't a real man.

    Ashley Phillips: Catherine, do you need a place to stay? I can't imagine living in the same house as that man.

    Catherine Holt: No, I decided last night that I am not the one who's leaving. He's the problem, not me.

    Deidra Harris: That's right, girl, stand your ground. Make him respect you. If there's one thing a man understands...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael, discussing the same situation] ... .it's respect. That's the issue. That's the reason our marriage is failing. She shows me no respect at all. And the saddest part about it is...

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts back to Catherine and her group of friends] He doesn't have a clue. He thinks our marriage has been fine for the most part. You know, he probably thinks...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] Our marriage has been fine until this year. Now all of a sudden she goes off the deep end.

    Michael Simmons: Do you really think this happened all of a sudden?

    Caleb Holt: I don't know what to think. I don't understand her. She's emotional about everything, she's easily offended, and way too sensitive.

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts to Catherine, starting to sob] I mean, he's so insensitive. You know, he doesn't truly care how I feel, he doesn't listen to me. Even if I say it over and over and over again.

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] And then she starts nagging me and saying I don't listen to her... or something like that. It drives me crazy. I feel like I'm going...

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts to Catherine] Insane. You know, he doesn't understand my needs. It feels like we are completely and totally...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] Incompatible. She's probably whining to her friends, making me sound like a criminal. I can see them all right now: crying, having some sort of group hug.

    Latasha Brown: [Cuts back to the women crowded around Catherine, comforting her, giving her a group hug] It's gonna be OK, sweetie. It's gonna be all right.

    Ashley Phillips: You'll get through this.

    Deidra Harris: We have your back. Whatever you want. Whatever you need. Whatever you need.

    Michael Simmons: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] So, you think it's past the point of no return?

    Caleb Holt: I don't have a reason to return.