Compassionate each other, no longer lonely

Barton 2022-03-30 08:01:02

A middle-aged man who owed a large amount of debt to the bank and was abandoned by his wife, ready to commit suicide to end his life, unexpectedly drifted to an uninhabited desert island inexplicably. On a deserted island, there is nothing but myself. It is completely barren and lonely. In a state of nothing, no one or anything can be lost. Everything returns to the beginning, and there is only "survival" in life. , instead grew wings and flew away. A super house girl who hasn't been out of the house for three years, all the focus of her life is on the Internet. She sets up one virtual website after another, and the moderator uses whose photos she wants to become; she wants to own something, That stuff would appear on her website. No one knows who she is? No one will find the scars on her face, and all the people who talk to her are unknown IDs. In the unreal online world, she feels safe and feels that her life is only 1/6 of gravity, and she can fly lightly Get up without having to face the ubiquitous heaviness of the real world. This is the portrayal of the hero and heroine of the Korean movie "Kim's Crusoe". Two people who were originally unrelated but had similar life situations, in their lonely worlds, accidentally formed a warm connection. They are all alone, and they can all be alone, just like everyone in the world, no one can’t live without another person, even though he once swore: “I can’t do it without you”, in the end, it will change with time and mentality. The cloud is light and the wind is light. It doesn't work at first, but it's okay gradually. Therefore, "living" is not difficult. It is easy to live lightly, and it is difficult to live warmly. The movie gave a lot of space for thinking. I was thinking, which is more unbearable, the loneliness of being in a crowd or the loneliness of being alone on an uninhabited island? Being used to living in the online world, turning off the computer is no longer relevant to people. Such existence is indeed less burdensome, but behind the lightness, what kind of contradiction is the desire to connect? If one day, we are alone in this world, will we live in peace? Or are you still longing for a sincere look? In the movie, middle-aged men with unemployed debts and separated wives and children are like the suicidal men often seen in the social version. When the reporter visited the relatives and friends of the suicide victims, everyone would express regret and puzzlement. However, in fact, no one really cared about the deceased. The indifference that verbally cared, but did not care at all, highlighted the deceased's "one person". A strong sense of loneliness, not being cared about by anyone, there is only emptiness left in the huge world, "no one cares" may be a more terrifying feeling than death! The male protagonist in the movie is more fortunate, and there is still a chance to drift to nowhere after a suicide attempt. Deserted Island: He gradually gave up from being eager to ask for help, and his mentality gradually changed from "must die" to "don't be in a hurry, anyway, one day he will die". Slow down, those worldly things that affect his life and death are suddenly not in a hurry; if he can't go back, those problems that cannot be solved are suddenly unimportant. He realized that nothing would change, the only thing that could change was his own mentality. The terrible near-death experience gave him a chance to start over. If one wants to live, one has to hold on to a "silver ray of hope". Hope can be big or small, but it is impossible to live without it. When I saw that he worked hard for the humble wish of "eating a bowl of fried noodles", although it was funny, I was really moved! There is no difference between high and low in the dream itself. What is valuable is that the "dream" gives life the motivation to move forward. Only in the poorest and most embarrassing times can we see the strong vitality of human beings that are more tenacious than imagined. When he knew that someone was watching his every move silently, the deserted island was no longer just a conversation with him, and after getting used to a person's life, he rekindled his desire to connect with others: "Someone cares about my quality, not just me What a tearful thing to live alone"! This man, who had no interest in life, has naturally taken off the hypocritical mask of the civilized world after undergoing major changes. He no longer hides his true emotions. Cry for those who care about him, and cry for loneliness. Drifting on a deserted island, he has nothing, no intertwined interpersonal relationships, no successful social status, no convenient connection to the mobile Internet, but he has returned to the purest state of life: working at the sunrise, living and breathing every day, no civilization The world's greed and desire, only the beautiful hope of self-sufficiency, he can't find someone who cares about him immediately? Can only wait in peace, trust completely, return to the original state, but shorten the distance between the two. I found that everything returned to simplicity, life is naturally beautiful, and the state of mind is naturally vast. Therefore, although a man has lost everything, he has found the most important "self". The heroine who relies on the Internet for a living is also like the epitome of many otaku nerds today. Apart from eating and sleeping, she spends almost all of her time on the Internet. She is afraid of light and does not like the daytime. She cannot be at ease with others in real life. Conversation, the inexplicable fear of people blocked her normal life. However, she waits on the Internet every day for comments from netizens, and the messages from netizens seem to be her only communication bridge with the world. She fears crowds and longs to connect with people. This weak and estranged relationship seems to suit her. Until she accidentally took a photo of the male protagonist and observed his changes every day, unknowingly she also changed, and the Internet is no longer the only focus of her attention , The photos that recorded the hero's life also recorded her transformation, only 1/6 of her life's gravity gradually became heavier, she couldn't float, but she began to dare to go out of the house, and she began to dare to use simple language, yes A real person expresses her concern, she begins to have emotions, she begins to face the sun, she begins to learn to care for plants, and she begins to have a desire to truly connect with people. When a house girl is no longer just a house girl, and life is no longer just a virtual online world, open her heart and fill her heart with all the feelings. She can't fly, but she can start to devote herself to life down-to-earth. Recently, I have often thought that the convenient Internet seems to shorten the distance of the world, but from another perspective, it seems to shorten the physical distance between people. Some people are too accustomed to using the Internet as a communication channel, and without the Internet, they are inexplicably alienated. I haven't been on MSN for more than three months. When I opened it again, a friend who always called me every time I went online asked me: Where have you been during this time? Why didn't you look at you? Actually, I didn't go anywhere! Just not on MSN. At that moment, I suddenly understood a simple thing, people who have nothing to do with each other once the computer is turned off are really just netizens. If you really care, you won't only care when you go online. One day there will be no Internet, and there must be many emotions that you think are real. So, will netizens become real friends? Of course it will, because I always believe that what is illusory is not the Internet, but human nature. The Internet is only a bridge for convenient connection, not the key to determining the depth of emotion, but the key to people's sincerity. Although they met through the Internet, even if there is no Internet, they still care about each other in other ways, or do they still want to know how the other person is doing? I still want to find an opportunity to meet you. It is a connection from the bottom of my heart, a true emotion that will not be lost because of the disconnection of the Internet. Just like the hero and heroine who were originally lonely in the movie, once they invest in real feelings, they will look forward to seeing each other, and even take this as the hope of life, and also use this to survive countless inner storms. The girl finally realized a sincere concern, which surpassed countless messages in the virtual world. Knowing that there is a person waiting for her, the girl is no longer afraid of other people's eyes. She runs in the sun without any cover, and the scars on her face are still clear. But the scars on my heart have gradually faded away. Humans, after all, long for the true opposite, no matter whether it is good or bad, only at the moment when the four eyes meet, can light penetrate all the imaginations that turn around and turn around and reflect on each other's hearts truthfully and warmly. It's an excellent movie, and one of my favorites of late, simple yet profound. The loneliness of human existence. The male and female protagonists have very few rival plays, almost each of which plays their own roles, but the excellent acting skills of the two make the film almost no cold scene. I have always liked Zheng Liyuan very much. I like her pure and transparent temperament. She can always portray the characters with extremely delicate and profound skills, which also adds a lot to the film. Thinking about it carefully, we are not like the hero and heroine, we are drifting on the sea of ​​life. Even if we find a place to live alone, we have learned how to live alone. In the end, we still hope that the moment we turn our heads, there will be someone who will be there for you. Follow your own eyes; you can be content with loneliness, but hope that you will never be lonely again. Finally, I suddenly want to know, if one day, I disappear into the online world, or go to a place where no one knows me, who will come to me desperately at that time? There are no beautiful words to say love, but they are willing to accompany them in the warmest way, just like the scene at the end of the play: at the moment of emergency braking, the male protagonist holds the hand of the female protagonist in time to prevent her from falling, which also means no more. Let her drift alone, he becomes her driftwood, wherever? will no longer be lonely.

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Castaway on the Moon quotes

  • Male Kim: I feel like the most delicious thing at the top of the evolutionary chain.

  • Male Kim: Taking dinosaur DNA from a fossilized mosquito and making Jurassic Park... or finding a wheat seed in bird poop and making black bean noodles... which has the higher probability?

    Male Kim: I should hope for a miracle.