A must for those who are in marriage and moving towards marriage

Shannon 2022-03-26 08:01:01

A woman is like a rose, if you take good care of her, she will bloom beautifully. And if you neglect to take care of her, she will quickly wither..." After watching this film, you will deeply appreciate the Christian definition of marriage and love. And from beginning to end, you will not feel a little didactic in the film Traces. What is marriage? It is the union of love. And love means giving unconditionally, expecting nothing in return, and not afraid of being misunderstood. When you learn how to love, you will find that love is endless and endless. The movie has aroused too many people's feelings. It is inconvenient for me to go into details here. I just want to recommend it to my friends. I always feel that people must live with faith.

I am not a Christian, but I respect the teachings of religion. The 40 days are the days when Jesus was tortured. No matter how great the pain is, if you persist, you will achieve positive results. In fact, whether it is in the East, the West, Christianity or Buddhism. It is not difficult to find some similarities. For example, through suffering Only then can we cultivate into a positive fruit. This positive fruit is by no means a superficial and utilitarian interpretation by us mortals. It is more about the richness of our hearts. It is invisible. Perhaps we have been influenced by too much materialism in school education. Of course, this cannot be said to be Who's fault. I just think that after a person leaves school, he should look at the world more with his heart. Don't negate one or the other. You don't believe in religion, it doesn't mean it doesn't have value, and it doesn't mean you can't benefit from it.

Too young may not see it. There is no experience, no feeling, and no feeling. The Mike in "Growing Pains" has turned into a full-blown mature man. The story shows the problems that many marriages (man-woman relationships) face. Similar movies include "Break Up Men and Women" starring Jennifer Aniston. But many of these movies just show the process and confusion of men and women from falling in love to hurting each other. It ended up breaking up, but nothing was resolved. According to a survey by sociologists, as many as 80% of marriages and families with problems actually exist, but only a very small number of people can get through it. Many people think that if the marriage is not right, just change a person. In fact, many times the problem is that as long as it is not an unsolvable problem, if the two people in this relationship don’t solve their own problems, you cannot solve any marriage problems. Marriage is always a prudent decision. In fact, it will not become instant food because of the so-called progress of society and the reform of laws. If a person cannot grow from a failed relationship, he or she will live in a failed relationship for the rest of his life.

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  • Elsa 2022-03-27 09:01:23

    Though I don't like the doctrinal part, the theme is thought provoking

  • Elsa 2022-04-02 09:01:15

    but God demonstrates his own love for us in this; while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

Fireproof quotes

  • Latasha Brown: Honey, I agree with you. You gotta get out. He don't deserve you.

    Deidra Harris: You can say that again. A real man's got to be a hero to his wife before he can be to anybody else, or he ain't a real man.

    Ashley Phillips: Catherine, do you need a place to stay? I can't imagine living in the same house as that man.

    Catherine Holt: No, I decided last night that I am not the one who's leaving. He's the problem, not me.

    Deidra Harris: That's right, girl, stand your ground. Make him respect you. If there's one thing a man understands...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael, discussing the same situation] ... .it's respect. That's the issue. That's the reason our marriage is failing. She shows me no respect at all. And the saddest part about it is...

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts back to Catherine and her group of friends] He doesn't have a clue. He thinks our marriage has been fine for the most part. You know, he probably thinks...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] Our marriage has been fine until this year. Now all of a sudden she goes off the deep end.

    Michael Simmons: Do you really think this happened all of a sudden?

    Caleb Holt: I don't know what to think. I don't understand her. She's emotional about everything, she's easily offended, and way too sensitive.

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts to Catherine, starting to sob] I mean, he's so insensitive. You know, he doesn't truly care how I feel, he doesn't listen to me. Even if I say it over and over and over again.

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] And then she starts nagging me and saying I don't listen to her... or something like that. It drives me crazy. I feel like I'm going...

    Catherine Holt: [Cuts to Catherine] Insane. You know, he doesn't understand my needs. It feels like we are completely and totally...

    Caleb Holt: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] Incompatible. She's probably whining to her friends, making me sound like a criminal. I can see them all right now: crying, having some sort of group hug.

    Latasha Brown: [Cuts back to the women crowded around Catherine, comforting her, giving her a group hug] It's gonna be OK, sweetie. It's gonna be all right.

    Ashley Phillips: You'll get through this.

    Deidra Harris: We have your back. Whatever you want. Whatever you need. Whatever you need.

    Michael Simmons: [Cuts to Caleb and Michael] So, you think it's past the point of no return?

    Caleb Holt: I don't have a reason to return.

  • John Holt: Caleb, is there anything in you that wants to save your marriage?

    Caleb Holt: Maybe. If Catherine wanted to. But she doesn't. She wants divorce.

    John Holt: Is that what you want?

    Caleb Holt: I want peace. But what difference does it make? She signs the papers, dad, it's all over.

    John Holt: Have you agreed to start the process with her?

    Caleb Holt: No, but I think we both understand where this is all headed. I've got plans to meet with my lawyer tomorrow.

    John Holt: Caleb, I want you to do something for me.

    Caleb Holt: What?

    John Holt: I want you to hold off on the divorce for 40 days.

    Caleb Holt: Why?

    John Holt: I'm gonna send you something in the mail. Something that'll take you that long to do.

    Caleb Holt: What is it?

    John Holt: It's what saved our marriage.

    Caleb Holt: Dad, if this is a religious thing, I'd rather you didn't.

    John Holt: Look at it as a gift from your father. Take one day at a time. Then see what happens. Please son. If for no other reason; do it for me. I'm asking as your father.

    Caleb Holt: 40 days?

    John Holt: 40 days.