Maybe everyone has a different feeling after watching "White Lotus Resort".
What impressed me the most about this film were the newlyweds, Shane, a wealthy man, and Rachel, an ideal woman. I read several film reviews, but none of them touched my heart, so I will try to express it myself.
This rich man reminded me again and again of my ex-boyfriend, and there were many uncomfortable things about getting along with him. At that time, I was young and could not describe it accurately.
The first is disrespect. I don't know if you have noticed. In the process of getting along with these two people, in many cases, girls are talking to themselves, expressing their thoughts about the future, and expressing their feelings. However, the rich man did not listen carefully, he could even When the girl was talking about her future plans, she suddenly approached the lobby manager who passed by to talk about room issues, completely ignoring the girl.
The second is excessive self-centeredness. Everything is based on his thoughts, completely disregarding the feelings of others. When he first checked into the hotel, when the girls were already indulging in foreplay, he could suddenly stop and call the front desk of the hotel to say that this was not the house he ordered. ; When the girl quarreled with him, what he said was: "Why do you want to destroy everything so beautiful", completely ignoring why the girl had such thoughts.
Then there's the emotion of disrespect for women. In fact, there is an obvious process in the girl's emotions from the first passionate love to the end of the relationship. However, the rich man didn't pay attention to it once, and diverted it from "I'm going to swim" or other topics again and again, so the girl would finally say "I feel very lonely with you". She had no chance to express her feelings at all. After the last time she cried tears, the rich man still looked very incomprehensible. Her feelings really hit me too much, very resonant, emotional value is very important, a man who doesn't respect your emotions is not worthy of being a qualified partner.
Again, it's childish. The rich man is used to being spoiled by his mother, and he wants the best for everything. He said to the girl ten times, "You are my wife, I want the best for you." For example, the fact that he wanted to change the room was not what the girl wanted, but he was intoxicated with self-giving. For me, to experience something like this in person, I would find it very nauseating.
Finally, there is the personality. The girl accidentally said a few words in the morning chat, and he felt that the girl thought that he was not romantic enough as a husband, so he began to think of ways to do something romantic, and found a boat to prepare a candlelight dinner. Of course, there is no problem at first glance, but after thinking about it, in fact, the rich man has his own personality for his role as a "perfect husband", and he does all these things to satisfy his own personality. set up. Let me tell you, sincerity and insincere or not, the sense of experience is worlds apart. If you really pay for you, you want you to be happy; if it is to satisfy your own personality, he only cares about whether things are done well or not. How to see yourself. It's like someone gave you a gift, someone gave you a small object with simple packaging, but it was carefully crafted by yourself, and someone gave you a very luxurious gift box, but there was a cloud of air inside. And many times, when you meet such people in real life, you can't tell others, because they have done a good job on the surface.
About this rich man, there are still a lot of grooves, I don't want to say them one by one, everyone is welcome to discuss this character together.
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