Decided to turn love into marriage, those two people must have been very in love.
Unconditional love is the key to a long-lasting relationship. Everyone clearly knows that the unsolicited giving for each other's happiness, and the experience of intimacy and happiness that we feel from it, do not exist all the time, but exist in certain moments.
The essence of love is discrete moments, no love (between partners) is continuous, it only exists for a moment. Those moments of high light in a love constitute a beautiful relationship between us. I have to admit that love will be disconnected. Although love may break through the peak in some moments, when it falls into the routine of life, there will be nothing left.
A good relationship should be "equal," but differences in the sense of strength between partners are the norm in intimacy. In real life, in different scenarios, people will feel that the two of us are not equal.
One is strong and the other is weak;
Whenever this difference is felt, the "bullied" party can easily fall into anxiety, growl, anger, and even burnout. And this kind of bad mood will be contagious between partners. The party who "accepts and pays" will feel that the normalcy of life has been broken, and may issue soul torture to his marriage or relationship. Should such painful entanglements continue? ?
The burnout period will make us less satisfied with all the behaviors of the other half, and become numb and tired of this relationship or this person. This is not a lack of love, but a daily routine. After getting along with each other over time, a lack of fun and novelty is the norm.
When encountering emotional setbacks, the easiest way to get through is to have another person show up.
If there happens to be a heterosexual partner who can "relieve depression" at this time, he who has never participated in your married life, and he offers some innocuous suggestions for your married life, which may make you feel that a real loving life is not Problems like this will arise.
Emotions, as a love impulse, create a state of tension and sparks that sparkle. And a stable social relationship, or a stable family relationship, does not need these so-called feelings, ideals, and distance. Emotional indifference is a sign of social stability.
We still love each other, but the way we love has changed.
It is clear that the rest of the relationship is not over, but no one dares to take the initiative. Perhaps, both of them are working hard, but the timing is always wrong.
A minute ago, the two were still intimate, but maybe it was just for one sentence. You didn't want to say it, but I took the right seat. I accused you, and you started to get angry. All the old accounts of the rotten millet have been turned over, and the situation has intensified.
Obviously they still love each other, but they feel wronged and can't stay under the same roof. Everyone wants the other to make concessions, like a dead end.
Instead of giving up separation, try to stay together.
You know my emotions, and I know your temperament like the back of my hand.
It's really fortunate to meet someone who can make you the person you want to be.
Because of the nourishment of love, she is as bright as summer and as quiet as lake water.
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