I just saw a comment saying that I couldn't understand the younger son's tantrum because Superman concealed his identity, but I really understand the younger son's reaction - because I am also a very introverted and sensitive person, and my father is also a successful businessman. People who don't take care of their family very much (except that my dad is far less gentle than Superman, and he beat and scolded me a lot since I was a child);
In the play, Superman said, "You can't tell the truth to the children, or they won't accept it." Just like my dad, he also likes to hide all kinds of things from me, but hiding things actually causes bigger problems. There is an urge to explain the world rationally. If you deliberately cover up the truth, you will let your child use other illusions as the truth to explain the world. If the image is reflected and the whole world is turned upside down, then when you look at other things, it will all be reversed, and the child will think that something is not right. Is there something wrong with me or the world? In the end, I fell into a situation of doubting myself and my life, so the youngest son in the play said, "You have always lied to me, making me suspect that there is something wrong with my brain."
Of course, the difference is that the youngest son in the play is much luckier than me. Superman just blames himself and doesn't say to him, "You are just cranky all day long, and you are not sensible at all", and Louise is also so wise and fully understands the mood of the youngest son. , but at the same time understand the difficulties of Superman and give emotional comfort to both parties, and my mother can't do anything but add fuel to the fire~ I really envy my little son, there are parents who can tolerate his vulnerability and sensitivity, and take more care, and I In the eyes of my parents, my fragility and sensitivity is an original sin that I am sorry for the world, and I am ashamed of their "careful cultivation". Fortunately, I am an only child. If I have an outgoing brother, then I should be completely unloved in the family. That one (but I can't say for sure, if Superman's eldest son meets parents like me, maybe the high-intensity attention will break him and me together)
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