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There are still many waves in London now. It is easy to make appointments with a large number of apps, and there are a lot of party events. However, there are two points that inhibit the spread of HIV among gay people to the greatest extent.
1. U=U. Undetectable= U ntransmittable. Even if you are infected with HIV, as long as you take medicine on time, check on time, control the amount of virus in your body, and not infect your partery, there is absolutely no problem.
2. If you can't guarantee that you have been practicing safe sex, and you can't guarantee your partner's hiv status, take PREP ( PrEP ( full name Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis), which is a way to prevent HIV infection by taking anti-HIV drugs in advance. Viral drugs to make it reach a certain concentration in the body, thereby preventing HIV from invading and reducing the risk of HIV infection in HIV - negative people . ) It can 99% prevent you from being infected with HIV. (There are still hepatitis C, syphilis, super gonorrhea, etc. are very, very tricky The possibility of sexually transmitted infections, if possible, try not to promiscuous)
Actually, this article was written 10 years ago. I just didn't think about the right platform.
Then I saw this drama recently. Although I was a virgin born in the 1980s when HIV was rampant in the 1980s, writing about my experience is a review.
I went to college in Beijing in 1997. I had sex for the first time in my second year of sophomore year. It's not something to be proud of. I lost my first time in some obscene place. Forgetting where to get the knowledge, I feel that HIV has a very strong positive correlation with comrades. (At that time, there was news that there were more than one million HIV-infected people in China) So I was very worried. When I was a junior in high school, the school organization wanted to donate blood, and I was very worried that HIV would be found out.
So I tried to go to a well-known general hospital near the university to check blood a few days in advance. I found the consultation desk, and asked my aunt carefully, where can I get an AIDS check? The aunt looked at me like a monster and said, why are you checking this, lad? I am speechless.
Seeing that I didn't want to leave, she thought about it and said, go to the place behind the outpatient clinic to experience the experience abroad and ask. I walked up to the second floor of the temporary building and asked them, are you checking AIDS here? A woman replied that, instead of checking alone, you can experience it if you go abroad.
So I gave up completely.
Later, I decided to donate blood.
Later, I found a more stable boyfriend, and the sex life is basically completely free of condoms.
Later, I went to study in the UK. Most of them had boyfriends in the middle. Occasionally, I ate secretly or when the window was empty. Of course, kj are generally without sets. During this period, there was less panic about HIV.
Later, through the chat room of gaydar.com, I made an appointment with an old man of about 55-60 years old, very hung, about 9 inches. I gave him a mouthful for a while, then tried it with a condom, but of course it didn't work. then gave up. When I was chatting, I jokingly asked him, your size is so impressive, you must be very wave when you are young, shouldn't it be poz?
He froze for a moment and said, I'm Poz. I've been taking medicine though, and you should be fine.
I was dumbfounded at the time, the first contact with poz! And I didn't wear a sleeve when I bj!
I said, you should have told me in advance. He said, 'I don't think we're doing anything that could cause you to get infected, so I don't think I need to tell you, and you didn't ask. (While grateful that he didn't lie to me afterwards, I was still angry. He had an obligation to tell me before he acted, whether I asked or not).
I was annoyed and came out immediately. It was two o'clock in the morning when I got home. I was in gaydar's chat room and asked me what to do.
The kind-hearted spectators inside told me, why are you still standing there, go to the emergency room and ask for PEP.
I went to the emergency room, and was left by the nurse sister for two or three hours. Finally, I saw the doctor at 7:00 in the morning. The doctor drew my blood, and then asked about my condition. There are several points, 1. Is there anal, 2. Is there an internal ejaculation, he told me that there is almost no risk if I just don't have a condom like me (it's unlikely for you to catch the virus. the risk is extremely low), you should not need to take medicine. But I insisted, stressing that I didn't know if the poz's condom was broken during the anal, and he had no choice but to prescribe two mixed pep for me (according to your assessment of the possibility of infection, there are two kinds of medicines) Mixed or three-drug mixed pep).
I was given 4 days of medicine, and then 25 days of medicine need to go to the local STD clinic to pick up, because there is still a follow-up test.
The fat nurse in the STD clinic chatted with me, and I asked him, do you wear a condom when you oral? He rolled his eyes for me and said, god no. Then he told me that the chance of infection through oral is very, very low, almost only theoretically possible. Cases that were actually detected with 100% certainty were not reported. (This is debatable, it can only be said that the possibility is very, very low)
I finished my 28-day course of treatment. I take it every day after breakfast cereal, and there are no side effects.
Later, I had the opportunity to meet some other poz people. I was still worried, but it was much better. I also learned that the greater risk of unsafe behavior is other stds, including liver and syphilis. If not treated in time, the consequences may be serious. You will cause a lot of trouble for yourself and the people you come into contact with.
Later, I learned about prep. In recent years, both the United Kingdom and the United States have begun to popularize it among gay people on a large scale. With this, the spread of hiv among gay people is basically controlled. Especially in the past two years, basically as long as you have this concern, you can get free prep drugs. And there are so-called daily mode and event mode are equally effective.
I just saw two days ago that China has also started a large-scale pilot program.
"Science has rescued the mass of gay people.
Thanks to the great Professor Ho Dayi. "
After watching this show, I just want to say this.
I am lucky to be born twenty years late.
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