Over the years, I have not come out of a big misunderstanding: I have been reading books, watching movies, watching variety shows, and constantly inputting knowledge, thinking that this is the only way to learn. But after a quarrel with her and a conversation with my mother, I gradually discovered that I had completely ignored the heavy, wordless book of society and life. The process of watching this variety show also touched me deeply.
The reason for watching this variety show is not because of the very bad films of the same type in China (I only learned about it later), but because of her many years of recommendation. One of the reasons why I haven't watched it for a long time is that I can't accept the understanding of gay in my heart. But then she cut a short video and forced Amway to add tan's shape and voice that she liked very much, and she resolutely chased after it, and it was really fragrant (wuwuwu, why is she so good-looking, every time I am on Amway, I always refuse 100% beforehand) Afterwards, I called Zhenxiang directly, it must be because my interests are too broad, hum ╭(╯^╰)╮)
Once I chose to read and watch movies in an effort to be different from everyone else, I began to question whether worldly success really makes sense? Later, I gradually realized that the definition of success can also be completely personal: learning a skill is my success, and having a relationship is my success. Of course, these are all very simple and short-term successes. , After the "SOUL" and this variety show that touched me deeply, I feel that long-term success in line with my values is a high-quality daily life. Success in the mundane sense is bound to be achieved by not many people. If it is possible, it is great. If it is not possible, accept it calmly. Secondly, there are always different classes of people in the social structure, who can ensure that we will not be one of them (I will not deny the pursuit of higher classes, but I hope this does not damage physical health and seriously affect the current quality of life The premise). Again, people often have a certain misunderstanding of successful people. They have a talent that I think most people can't learn, that is, to work for life and find fun in it. Most people just make a living, work gives you money not fun, and if you put us in their situation, they will find that the responsibility they take on every day is overwhelming because they are used to it, I can't do it , I can't learn, I don't want to sacrifice some fun in exchange for grumbling about life and excess wealth. In the end life itself is not that complicated. "A Bite of China" once had a saying that left a deep impression on me: There are thousands of mansions, and a night's sleep only needs six feet; A very simple and pure truth, I went around for a long time before I bumped into the door.
Let me tell you what I like about this show.
Equality and respect.
Had to make a scene for the screenwriter who came up with this program format. Relatively speaking, gays know how to take care of themselves better than straight, and the prejudice and injustice that gays have suffered for a long time are also very topical. Imagine five straights transforming one straight, or five girls transforming one straight, and it feels that the instant attraction will be much less. Because they have been criticized, they are softer and stronger, better at observing people's hearts, which is the wealth of pain (how I hope it is not forged by pain, but sometimes I have to admit that pain is more shaping force) ) America has always prided itself on being diverse and open, and such shows are one of the best proofs. From my point of view, the United States is quite divided, with a lot of inclusiveness on the one hand and more extreme on the other. When Southern blacks meet white police (foreshadowing of the Freud massacre), when Christians meet homosexuals, when traditional parents meet out children. Life requires a strong and inclusive heart that allows us to treat everyone with kindness without prejudice and discrimination.
simple life.
When work and hobbies are separated from life, the remaining parts are exactly what FAB5 represents: food, clothing, beauty, home improvement and culture. These things make up our most daily and habitual parts, if not for them , I may not have known that life could be so wonderful. In addition to satisfying the interests of self-actualization and self-exploration, the rest is under their transformation. I am so glad that I live in this rich era: we can easily buy rich ingredients from thousands of miles away, which may We may not be able to see the whole picture of matching throughout our life. We have such a rich selection of fashionable and trendy clothing, and we are only used to the one that our parents chose for ourselves? We have skin care products that take care of all parts of the body, and I, a straight man, still hold the old idea that men don't need skin care, we have all kinds of colorful and practical furniture, and I never pay attention to whether a little change will make life better Even more interesting, we have such a rich spiritual world, but we still don't know how to deal with the people we care about and ourselves. Exploring these is itself a process of making life simpler and more valuable, and isn't this much more interesting than success in the mundane sense?
PS seems to rekindle the love of life when I write it, and TAN is really elegant, how can the British accent be so good!
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