When we confirm that we are going to get married, how sacred and fearless it should be. Since then, the two independent lives have penetrated, bound and spread with each other. Of course, for those wonderful moments, we have to pay, endure, and sacrifice. Although I do not yet have a deep understanding of the connotation of marriage, I have clearly realized the fact that there is no unrealistic fantasy in marriage, no management once and for all, and no eternal and wonderful sex. As the father said to his daughter-in-law in the movie, apart from sex, there are many other things in marriage, such as sacrifice, tolerance, such as seeing, many, many... can see each other’s efforts and efforts, and can tolerate each other’s mistakes and mistakes. Disadvantages, can appreciate and accept each other from the heart. It's easy to say, but it takes a lot of wisdom and effort to do it. When I asked the counselor for advice, the marriage can end at what point. The counselor’s answer is that when two people have been using the wrong way to solve and repair the problem, she used an image metaphor to describe it. When facing the wound, Everyone chooses to take a knife to clean up, you scrape a scrape, I scrape a scrape, and finally the bones come out, and they lose too much blood and die. I agree with this answer. Love and emotion are moments, and these disappear in the wrong treatment. People attribute the failure of marriage to no love and no emotion. But why there is no relationship, few people go deep into it. Every relationship has wounds. If two people are thinking about spraying medicine, cleaning, and disinfecting the wounds, will there be less pain.
Bathing in pain, at least seeing the essence of the marriage relationship, it is not in vain to encounter these tortures, this is also a great way, isn't it?
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