This reminds me of a family trip and my dad drove a car. Go through a large disc with a 5-way intersection. This road is the only way to go home. He hasn't drove it thousands of times and it should be hundreds of times. At this time, my mother said casually: "Turn right ahead." My dad pretended not to hear it. He passed the correct entrance and abruptly turned into a wrong auxiliary road. The 10-minute journey turned into an hour.
I thought sadly and fortunately. Fortunately, I am a 100% pure-bred domestic daughter. Otherwise, I will be put in the'orphan'. Daddy, your life is in jeopardy!
As we all know, the important attribute of the profession of "husband" is that you cannot listen to her when your wife is wrong; when your wife is right, you still can't listen to her. This view is especially culturally inherited in our great country with 5,000 years of brilliant history. We can often see such scenes in outstanding ancient costume popular science such as "Emperor of the Great Man" and "Supreme Beauty": No matter how a woman speaks, her husband just waits for the opportunity to snorting coldly." "Women's Opinion" won. These four words alone constitute the argument and argument. Although the sparrow is small, it has all the internal organs, it is short and incisive, lively and lively, seeing people and killing people, meeting ghosts and killing ghosts, good quality and cheap, convenient and easy to use, it is really necessary for your husbands to travel at home. .
Why don't men listen to his wife?
Many lesbians who were wives dreamed back in the middle of the night, unavoidably sadly remembering that not long ago, before the red book was received, how the person next to him gave tea to the back of the horse, you said he didn’t dare to think about it. two. I don't want to be now...
I think these lesbians definitely don't have the habit of watching the animal world on time. During courtship, males will show their best side, peacocks will open the screen, cranes will dance, baboons will show their red butts, and men will behave well. Have you ever seen a male baboon chasing a female baboon who got it and said, "Look at it, see my butt is so red~"? Have it? no.
In terms of social composition, during the pursuit period, men and women are independent individuals. When male individuals try to please female individuals, they naturally need to show the shining side of their personality: honesty, cleverness, and reliability, and of course, the most important thing. Considerate (obedient written language). After the two parties have approved the union as a family, the two people form a unit. In this group with two people as the core of power and children as the controlled medium, men's natural desire for power is manifested at this time. He needs to establish his dominance quickly and forcefully. Especially during the pursuit, a lot of prices were lost in vain. At this time, extraordinary means are needed to declare their authority.
In a group, the establishment of authority requires proving that oneself is superior to other individuals in the same group. Fortunately, in this case, there are only two of us. The husband only needs to prove that he is superior to his wife in all aspects of IQ ability and physical strength (the last item does not need to be verified). There are many ways to prove this, such as listing their achievements and contributions to the family, comparing them with each other, and making an opinion-but this method has a fatal flaw, that is, the husband usually does not have the upper hand. So the most popular one is to prove that the other party is stupid than himself. When this kind of proof is concretely operated, it negates every opinion of the other party and destroys the other party's self-confidence from the will.
Let’s quote a conversation that has done a pretty good job in this regard:
Wife: Early
husband: I ’m late. Wife: Have
some breakfast before going out.
Husband: What time is it? What breakfast is for?
Wife: What do you want to eat at night? Xiao San gave me some ham a while ago. Shall we add some bean sprouts to stir fry tonight?
Husband: Didn’t you see the TV yesterday that eating ham is harmful to your health?
Wife: What about steamed osmanthus fish?
Husband: I just ate sweet-scented osmanthus fish a few days ago.
Wife: Then what do you say to eat?
Husband (thinking state): Hot vegetables.
Wife: ...
Husband: I went out.
Wife: It's cold outside, add more clothes.
Husband: What's cold, not cold.
Wife: Don’t wear those white leather shoes. They don’t match your clothes today.
Husband (with feet in white leather shoes): You women just care about indifferent details.
Wife: Wait.
Husband: What else is there?
Wife (tentatively): Are you a human?
Husband (filled with righteous indignation): Am I a human? How could I be a human? How am I like a human? I am obviously a pig!
The wife (collapsed)
husband (so far established a dominant position) is a
real warrior, we must face the bleakness of becoming a pig!
In terms of social structure, women’s status in society has gradually improved since the women’s liberation movement in the 1960s, but we cannot deny that men still bear most of the social and family responsibilities. Therefore, the pressure on men in the workplace far exceeds that on women. Most gay men in modern society have never studied Yi Jin Jing, and do not meditate to ease the relief by themselves. The more pressure builds up, there should always be an outlet. Sitting on the sofa at home and looking around, the sky was vast and there were only a few goals. The child is too small to win, and the important thing is that there is no challenge where there is a sense of accomplishment. This is a multiple choice question that is not too difficult to do.
Through the negation of his wife’s opinion, the husband realized Murong Fu’s pleasure of “returning his body by his way” (although the former “bi” is the boss and the “bi” is the wife), and he re-established his self-confidence. Architecture restores its collapsed self-esteem, and throws itself into the process of socialist construction in a completely new state. It can be said that the act of denying the wife has promoted economic and social development! So fellow female compatriots, I don’t sacrifice anyone, whoever I am benevolent will become benevolent!
The previous analysis was carried out from two aspects of subject and society. Of course, the objective factors from the wife cannot be ignored.
The two most important occupations in a woman's life are wife and mother. It seems that one person is really busy doing two jobs, but a careful analysis shows that there are actually many overlaps between the two jobs. If it is a little rough, it can actually be counted as a job. Many husbands wondered after marriage, how could a wife who turned out to be so charming and non-eater of the fireworks became more and more like the old mother in the family?
That's because the wife and mother have an important common attribute: nagging.
The strange thing is that nagging is not a woman's nature. Before becoming a wife or mother, a woman is not nagging, at best it is just gossip. The author has the opportunity to discuss the specific reasons separately in the future. In short, this key attribute of nagging opened the door to the husband's memory. "Don't throw your socks away", "Hold your chopsticks", "Return the toilet seat", "Wear an extra layer of cotton trousers"... Once upon a time, when his face was full of pimples, there was also someone who gave such annoying advice to his ear. By the way, it was during his rebellious period, and that person was his mother.
Thus, the nagging inspired another round of middle-aged rebellion. No wonder the husbands, their early training made them reflexively deny similar imperative sentences.
After watching Orphan, many comrades-especially lesbians-applauded John's ending, feeling that this person deserves it. Do you remember that before John, there was actually a victim of another family. There may be many others before another family. It can be seen that John's phenomenon of not listening to his wife and ruining himself is not a personality but a commonality.
In summary, we can't ask men to listen to their wives. The only thing we can do is pray not to meet an Esther~
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