But at the beginning, I am afraid that few people have a good impression of him, unscrupulous "pupu", spitting grape pits all the way, hehe, I was thinking, how could there be such a long-winded man. In fact, they were all very sharp back then, isn't Sally also unscrupulous and extremely impatient strumming the horn. I have to mention that piece of jazz. You say eether, I say either.
That's why I like it. This is real life, real love, real life. There is no ambiguous and romantic atmosphere of love at first sight, nor is it the kind of fairy tales of princes and princesses who embrace each other for a few days because of a misunderstanding and God's help. Maybe I am not young anymore, but every episode of conversation between middle-aged couples makes people even more cherish the true meaning of love and marriage. Maybe the husband sings and sings, maybe it’s getting old, maybe it’s still complaining, but it’s not satisfying to be able to stay with the "right person in heart" for a lifetime.
Whether there are friends of the opposite sex, maybe it's just that men and women stand at different angles. The several conversations between them are obviously the scenery on the road of life. When they can gradually not only stare at one side of the sky, they can finally become friends. Understanding is the basis of love, at least for me, never believe in things like love at first sight.
Maybe many people like what Harry said to Sally at the New Year Party: "I love that you get cold when it's seventy one degree out, I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich, I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts, I love that after I spend a day with you I can still smell your perfume on my clothes and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Years Eve. I came here tonight because when you realise you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody , you want the rest of the life to start as soon as possible." When you realize that you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want the rest of the life to start as soon as possible. Loving someone is like this, and hating someone is also inescapable of escape. The tentacles of life are fragile, and the more cuts, the closer to being strong.
But the fragment of Harry throwing cards and talking about helen bored in the empty big room made me even more impressed. Harry is not a playboy, nor is he an animal who is in estrus when he is lonely, nor is he a Hollywood actor who has realized that his beautiful woman is right next to him. Harry is ordinary, and the shadow of a failed marriage is not something that can be changed by an old acquaintance. When Taiwanese director Hou Xiaoxian was invited to direct the Japanese movie "Coffee Time", he said that it is not that those times are the most beautiful, but that these times have been lost forever and can only be recalled with memories. Therefore, it is the most beautiful. Harry said: Maybe what I miss is the state when I miss Helen. Well, maybe I didn't comply with the audience's expectations-I saw Sally in full swing. But because of this, in the end it will be natural and unobtrusive, at least I myself don't have the superhuman mental recovery ability.
Now I say "meet the right person at the right time". Isn't it a cliché? I remembered that Tie Ning once asked Bing Xin when she met Bing Xin: When will she find her significant other? The 90-year-old Bing Xin said a sentence full of experience and wisdom: not to look for it, but to wait. It can be seen how difficult it is to meet and MET.
Harry and Sally spent twelve years and three months.
Youth is like a piece of white paper, and time gradually depicts coquettish flowers and vines on it, but when I look back, I can no longer see the pure white. Love is no longer a thing that has nothing to do with you and a person, but stays together.
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