Meet the right person at the right time

Nikita 2021-10-22 14:31:17

Harry and Sally met for the first time twelve years ago, they became a couple twelve years later, and they married twelve years and three months later. I have reason to believe that they will go on for a long time on the road of marriage. Because in the twelve years, they have become familiar with each other's shortcomings and habits.
They met for the first time because they went to New York together. They were 18 hours' drive to discuss their outlook on life, movies, and friendship between men and women. Harry's cynicism and Sally's critical and paranoid made the 18-hour discussion more like a dispute. It's been five years since we met for the second time. Harry is about to get married and Sally has a boyfriend. This short gathering also ended in unhappiness. When we met again, Harry had been divorced, and Sally had just experienced the pain of being broken in love. The two emotionally frustrated men and women became friends this time. And is the kind of close friend who talks about everything. Before going to bed, they would talk on the phone to say good night, and they agreed to spend the New Year together. If each other is single... Subconsciously, they have become aware of each other's sake. Love has sprouted in them at this time, but they are not yet. Just know.
Maybe there is really no so-called friendship between men and women, or it is just a courteous relationship that meets each other on the water, or it is the long-term relationship, the boundaries between friendship and love become blurred, and they eventually become partners.
Personally, I still believe in love at first sight more than impatiently waiting for someone to go down. It’s just that I’m more willing to believe in my own feelings. Those who can’t make me fall in love at first sight are probably still indifferent even if I watch them for a few more years. Everyone probably has an "ideal lover" standard in their minds, but the reason why love is so fascinating is that it has too much uncertainty. You can never express clearly what love is, just like you can never. Anticipating who you will fall in love in the next second, but these do not prevent us from having love. When you find that "I have fallen in love with him!", you are not comparing him with your "ideal lover" It can be concluded that just because we met the right person at the right time, love and hate are not opposites, and becoming a stranger or a lover may be just a difference in thought. If you change the time, will you still fall in love with the same person? Just like Harry and Sally, they couldn't imagine that they would become husband and wife after many years. For love, we can only pray that God will let us meet the right person at the right time.
For love, the 12-year search process may not be too long. But for those who find true love, the remaining time for both of them is always too short. As Harry said at the end of the film: When you finally understand that you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want to start the rest of your life as soon as possible.

Compared with the Hong Kong translation of "90 Men and Women Love", I prefer to translate it literally into "When Harry Meets Sally". In the early 1990s, Hong Kong was always too commercial. When Harry meets Sally, just thinking has a long and lasting feeling in his mouth, like the beginning of a warm story, suitable for watching every sunny morning or cloudy afternoon, a cup of coffee, a few Piece of cookie. Then he embraced a pillow and quietly watched the joy, anger, sorrow, and joy of the people in the play. Although the wind and the snow have nothing to do with him, you might as well laugh and cry with them. When the subtitles of "the end" appeared, the story in the movie ended, but my own story was still being played out.

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Extended Reading
  • Christop 2021-10-22 14:40:35

    Movies are used to create dreams, because they can always promise us too much fulfillment.

  • Laverna 2022-03-25 09:01:06

    Why always have a happy ending, I think as long as you say some jokes, I don't think it's funny, and I don't know the names of people and places you said, but I still choose to stay with you for a short period of time and listen to you. Stop, that's the full love story.

When Harry Met Sally... quotes

  • Sally Albright: You know, I'm so glad I never got involved with you. I just would have ended up being some woman you had to get up out of bed and leave at 3:00 in the morning and go clean your andirons, and you don't even have a fireplace, not that I would know this.

  • [Harry and Sally discussing orgasms]

    Sally Albright: Most women at one time or another have faked it.

    Harry Burns: Well, they haven't faked it with me.

    Sally Albright: How do you know?

    Harry Burns: Because I know.

    Sally Albright: Oh. Right. That's right. I forgot. You're a man.

    Harry Burns: What was that supposed to mean?

    Sally Albright: Nothing. It's just that all men are sure it never happened to them and all women at one time or other have done it, so you do the math.