At the beginning of the movie, I felt very nonsense, even inexplicable. Buddy asked Dave to stop on the main road and sing West Side Story. Arrange Dave to go to the bar to meet up with beautiful women, urge him to seek revenge from the bullying man in elementary school, and even snatch his girlfriend. . .
Until the end, after Dave and Linda kissed under the eyes of the people in the stadium, Buddy typed on the big screen, wishing Dave and Linda happiness.
It turned out that everything was planned by Linda and the psychologist Buddy. In order to treat her boyfriend's cowardly psychological problems, Linda and the psychologist passed a series of stimulation. Let Dave face his heart and pursue true love bravely.
Anger management. Seeing the name of the film, I initially thought it was a psychiatrist who was going to educate a grumpy person on how to get along with the world peacefully.
In the process of watching the movie, I discovered that Dave is a very gentle person. Someone on the plane took his place, and he was not very angry. The leader did not give him a promotion, and he could bear it.
It turns out that there is another kind of anger, which is anger towards oneself.
There is a kind of anger, and it will be furious at that time, making people turn their backs on the horse. But there is also a kind of anger, which was swallowed at the time, and seemed calm, but accumulated in the future. It may be like a volcanic eruption, and it will kill the innocent.
Especially those who are dissatisfied with their status quo, are not confident, and suppress themselves for a long time.
Someone in film reviews said that long-term depression has two consequences.
One is that it is easy to daydream to relieve stress and seek comfort.
The second is to do something extreme.
As Lu Xun said, if you don't erupt in silence, you will perish in silence.
This film is about how to manage invisible anger.
Psychologist Buddy used the stimulation method to obtain remarkable results.
He taught Dave to talk to beautiful women in what could be called nasty language, and increased Dave's self-confidence. He deliberately incited the people who had bullied Dave to fight Dave again, stimulating Dave to use force to subdue his former evil classmates. He deliberately snatched Linda and prepared to propose in the way Dave had planned.
Everything is going step by step, setting up the corresponding scenes, gradually deepening, building Dave's self-confidence, expelling his psychological shadows, and when he slowly improves, he will be a bolt from the blue. Take your woman, you can't make a move.
Dave entered the set, and Buddy completed a successful teaching. And Dave, did what he wanted to do but didn't dare to do.
This is not considered a win-win situation.
The comedy color of the movie is very strong, and the whole process is relaxed and humorous. It may not have that depth. After all, for a 100-minute movie, you have to be relaxed and deep. We can't be so demanding.
The movie in 2003, after 15 years, was turned out again to be seen, which can be regarded as a movie's success.
After watching the movie, I feel that I have a lot in common with the protagonist Dave. There may be many similarities in human nature, after all, we are an ancestor.
In life, I will suppress a lot of dissatisfaction in my heart. Lead to dissatisfaction with reality, leading to daydreaming to make oneself happy temporarily. But it's like mental opium, and it doesn't do any good except wasting time. And it will make one's concentration and concentration drop.
Will there be people like Buddy in life? Push you to a matter that has to be resolved that strongly stimulates your cerebral cortex. And so gradually cultivate your self-confidence, expel your demons, and make you brave to chase your true love.
Very little.
Therefore, we still have to face the bleak life. As you get older, the people or things that really interest you diminish day by day. Children will be very happy when they see the ants moving. You may only care about whether the ants have climbed onto your dining table.
This kind of boredom with life is also a kind of dissatisfaction with oneself. You have no ability to create a meaningful and interesting life. But you expect your Buddy to appear and take you through the thorns like a hero to reach the pinnacle of life.
But Buddy didn't come, you thought about coming by yourself. Starting today, go to bed early and get up early, complete your study and work tasks, love the people around you, eat nutritious meals, and walk the way you want to go.
It’s just a habit for so many years that makes you think, forget it. That's it for today, and live a good life tomorrow.
Therefore, you still have to face your bleak life. Zhang Defen said in "Meeting the Unknown Self", my dear, there is no one outside, only myself.
Whoever you are, you will see who you are, and what will happen to your world.
Cai Kangyong said that knowing the world is very important, and knowing oneself is even more important.
Face the bleak life, face your own heart.
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