The idea of this article originally originated from a male guest in "Lian Lian Lian Kan". When he appeared on the stage, he really killed a lot of female guests. The cliff is a standard tall, rich and handsome. Later, the introduction of Shenma by personal work also made many girls feel happy. When it came to the criteria for choosing a mate, everyone was shocked. This product directly opened 25 requirements: people should be beautiful, taller than 165, weighed less than 94, like British rock music, like Kubrick and Wong Kar Wai's movies (so far I haven't found what they have in common), like Wang Xiaobo and Murakami Haru Shu's novel...not to mention the nature of his pretending to be a fake Wenqing, all the female guests were so scared that they were so scared that no one wanted it. Later, the host asked him why he had to make so many demanding requirements. I was impressed by the answer.
"Because I found that in the process of love, I easily become the person the other person wants, but this change is very tiring, so I must find a woman worthy of me to change for her."
Suddenly, I understood , This has nothing to do with the woman he is looking for, this guy can't find a girlfriend. Because no woman is perfect, even if she is perfect, she pretends to be the same as him. When two people pretend to be in a relationship, the essence of love and happiness has long been lost, and it has become a heavy job, a task to be completed. .
Just like the heroine in this film, she listed 10 requirements to find her boyfriend (yes, this is the favorite thing for girls and one of the stupidest things), and finally found it and turned it into The perfect girl in his heart, but still tired of this disguise, took off the wig and gave up the perfect man in his heart.
So in this movie, the previous male protagonist blablablabla said that a bunch of so-called ugly truths are all nonsense, just like he worked hard to help the female protagonist become a goddess-level character in the end. No one wants to destroy your inner beauty, yes, this is the truth.
But the problem is that girls are not so stupid that they don’t know this truth. Yes, we look forward to romance. We want a soul mate. We long for the love in Jane Austen’s novels. But I’m not a fool. We also know that men like beautiful and sexy ones. Animals, men don't like long-winded women, men don't like women who care about this or that. But the question is, after these "shortcomings" are eliminated, are we still women?
The truth is not ugly, everyone knows it. The ugly is ourselves, and we are willing to be ugly and expect a man to accept our ugliness. Doesn't true love lie in that you can change back to your most self by being around that person, without being disturbed by world affairs?
In the end, yes, I am a bitch. I keep yelling that I can't find a man. In fact, I don't know that men will not like girls like me.
If I can dress myself more beautifully, if I can go out to socialize more, if I don’t say so much, if I don’t speak like this, there is no lower limit for morals, and if I’m a little stupid, don’t see everything. Tucao, if I incarnate as a gentle, lovely, virtuous and virtuous soft girl, maybe I would have married out a long time ago.
But I am unwilling, unwilling to change myself for a cheap man, so even if I know the truth, I would rather stay in my dorm room, watching boring romantic comedies or Mensao's literary and artistic films, and I am not hot. Xiao Li's ugly pictures are dark from time to time, he is dark in the post bar, chatting with gays in the group.
Maybe I am ugly like this, maybe I will never find a man like this, but at least I can be the most comfortable myself.
Regardless of whether the beautiful love that I am looking forward to will arrive as expected, I always believe that love is the tolerance and acceptance of the two parties, not the blind request and change.
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