Sex isn't scary, what's scary is our attitude toward it

Barrett 2022-09-30 18:32:30

I surreptitiously finished it. Yes, on certain late nights during the Spring Festival holiday, the lights were dark and I was holding my notebook and plugging my earphones tightly.

Even though there are often lively firecrackers outside the house, I am still afraid that the passionate moans of young people will overflow, which will affect the image of a good girl that I have worked so hard to build.

This drama talks about a topic that our family has never dealt with, and I believe it is also what most Chinese families regard as a beast-sex.

It is obviously an indispensable factor for the reproduction of human beings, but in the Chinese people's concept, it is secret and shameful. When it is filmed on the stage and made into a TV series, it is almost impossible to think about it.

When I was a child, I asked my parents, where did I come from, and the answer was picked up from the trash can. They also made up a story of my bitterness that was thrown away by my Sichuan mother. When I am not good, it is serious to go to your Sichuan mother. threaten.

When I was a little older, watching TV with my family was most afraid of emotional dramas. For kissing or something, I had to bow my head and pretend to be busy. For more explicit pictures, it is best to consciously urinate. Strangely, the elders never asked out loud that they were not allowed to watch, but I was able to sense sensitively that the current atmosphere was extremely embarrassing.

Later, when I watched TV with my parents, I chose sitcoms. Lao Sha and the others played "Urban Men and Women", "The Story of the Cooking Class" and "Wulin Biography", which were broadcast over and over in my house.

Up to now, I also regret that I haven't been able to watch "The Legend of Lu Buwei" well. The serenity of the peak value, the charming Chen Hao, and the skating horse in his prime. Because of some of the gorgeous scenes, I bowed my head and dared not look at it and missed it. . The only impression left now is the children of Zhao Ji and Connie, who were beaten to death in a sackcloth bag, the shadow of their childhood that cannot be erased...

In this drama, the secrecy that we used to experience has disappeared. The mother bluntly said that the child came from the parents' intercourse, and the teenagers put their genitals on their lips without being squeamish.

The most impressive scene is that the girls stood up one by one and said, "This is my vagina... It's a very ordinary sentence, it's an ordinary organ in the human body, we can say it boldly, it's not ashamed.

Maybe 16-year-olds are a little early to taste the forbidden fruit, maybe the competition-like ethos in school isn't right, but I appreciate the way they approach sex.

Like appetite, sexual desire is nothing but human instinct. We can say that we are hungry, why can't we say that we want to do it. If it is simply regarded as a sport in which two people in love express their love for each other, and both parties can get pleasure from it, why not?

As an adult who has experienced sexual curiosity, why can't it be more frightening to give a little advice and a little protection to children at the same stage, and let a group of teenage children explore and try at a loss?

Now even though I have grown up, I still dare not talk about this topic with my parents, they never even kissed in front of me, they rarely held hands, although I heard the bed creaking and shaking in the middle of the night, It's just a secret that will never be known.

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