On Sunday, a late recommendation: the American thriller The Dyatloff Incident.
This film tells about the famous Diatlov Mountain Trail incident in history: in 1959, nine former Soviet mountaineering enthusiasts disappeared near the Ural Mountains. When they were found again, they were already dead. They seemed to be greatly frightened before they died. As well as the attack of a powerful external force that is not human, it is still an unsolved mystery to this day. Fifty years later, five American college students form a documentary team to investigate the incident.
After that, the spoiler will be omitted, and the following will start to talk about the stinky and long concept of the big truth. Readers who want to spend a relaxing weekend can step back.
First: the power of the human mind fluctuates with changes in the environment
When the expedition team trudges and camps in the snowy mountains, you will be shocked by the beauty of nature from the perspective of the protagonists: the mysterious and continuous snow-capped mountains, the boundless and deep starry sky, standing alone under the night sky, looking at the Vast and magnificent, do not want to sleep, faint excitement, blood is surging, want to explore the unknown and majestic universe.
Here comes the question: 1. Why do ordinary people not feel this way in their daily environment?
A: We quickly get used to the environment and choose the comfort zone that best suits us. Now that you are comfortable, why do you have to travel so hard?
2. Why does the energy come in the snowy mountains, the emotions are ups and downs, and the waves are magnificent?
A: Because the environment has completely changed, people are always changing their minds.
3. How to find this abundant power in daily life?
A: You need to have a goal like a morning star, always guiding you.
4. Think of a digression: Why is it difficult for ordinary people to read classics with patience?
A: Recently, Laozhu found that children walking on the road are often attracted by the toys of their peers and peers. For example, children of several years pay attention to children of several years, and they like toy cars and other low-age toys. He doesn't pay much attention to adults and doesn't like adult things.
why?
Appreciation of the mind does not move, the heart rate is inconsistent.
Therefore, the most difficult step for people who want to read the classics is to understand the realm of the sage (wise man). Then you must improve your own mental maturity. It must be boring to read at first. Because it doesn't match our mind and our frequency, but as we mature, you will gradually discover the fun of the classic esoteric classics, as well as the dullness of children's toys.
Second: When disaster strikes, anger is your worst, most dangerous, and most stupid choice.
In the middle and latter part of the film, after being attacked by an unknown force, one death and one injury occurred in the five-member expedition team, and the remaining people became angry, irritable, and accused, accusing the leader of misdirection.
As a bystander, you will clearly see that anger and accusations at this time are completely meaningless, and are the worst, stupidest and most dangerous choices that can be made.
What should the parties do?
The best choice is to accurately judge the current situation at the first time, stop losses quickly, and try to coordinate time, energy and manpower to the best solution.
Getting into quarrels, and thus infighting, is the most effective way to continue to mutilate yourself.
However, why ordinary people are ordinary people is because it is difficult for TA to control their emotions at this time.
A few days ago, Lao Zhu posted three small articles when talking about "Yu Minhong's speech incident". Most of the readers' comments were attacks and abuse. In the process of communication, I have personally experienced:
Everyone has different experiences, different values, and different perspectives. It is an inevitable and common scene to have different opinions, but once this scene becomes emotional, you start to talk in a heavy tone, say harsh words, abuse, and quarrel, which is of no use at all, just venting and playing the house.
And after anger, your energy and time are seriously wasted, and your emotions and interpersonal connections take a long time to recover.
So, keep an eye out for the "angry" thing, no matter how good your reasons are. If you are often angry in your daily life, it is a serious waste of yourself, time and energy. You are just playing house, venting your emotions and wasting everything.
If you want to recognize things clearly and solve them, you still have to be peaceful. No matter how agitated and irritable the other party is, I will not move, listen and think in a different position (even if it is cooling or stagnant). When the other party calms down that anger, they can continue to communicate effectively and solve problems.
And some problems really can't be solved, you have to know how to let go.
Ashamed, I didn't understand this until now.
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