break up

Dillon 2022-03-23 09:01:47

I watched this movie on the plane returning home from a business trip in the United Arab Emirates. I was very tired from this business trip. After watching this movie, I felt a lot more relaxed, and then I fell into a deep sleep. When I came back, I felt I wanted to record how I felt at that time.

This is a film from ten years ago, but it does not feel outdated, including the protagonist doing yoga, renting his own house and working independently, and the decoration of the protagonist's room. At that time, the lifestyle of American women was already very advanced.

The heroine's character is a bit of a "bad guy" who doesn't know how to refuse. She would rather wear herself half to death and run two weddings at the same time. She always tries her best to meet other people's needs, but she forgets what she really wants. When she cleared all the bridesmaid dresses out of the closet, a new page in life seemed to have really opened, which happened to be a lesson I learned recently. No matter how many good things, successes or failures and setbacks we have had, we must learn to let go at the right time and start a new stage of life.

As modern independent women, we need to be responsible for our own survival and happiness, and we must take care of ourselves first and not depend on anyone. This is not about isolating yourself, but about cultivating your own independent personality and heart so that you can build healthier relationships.

When the heroine jumped on the pedal of the boat, she has leaped from her past self to a better self now. She is more confident, independent, and brave. She has also rushed to her true happiness and found her own Mr. Right.

I think life is about making a break at the right time, letting go of the obsessions and meaningless nostalgia for the past, saying goodbye to the past self, moving towards the future gracefully, and embracing a better self.

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27 Dresses quotes

  • Kevin: What color is that - vomit?

  • Kevin: What about you? You don't have any needs?

    Jane: No. I'm Jesus.