I have told many people that I love watching movies and have watched hundreds of movies. But I've never written a movie review seriously. Today, I really want to write about the changes in my heart for this silent film.
October in Beijing is particularly cool. I have a cold today. I put on my pajamas and a down vest, soaked my feet and drank brown sugar water while watching this movie. This is my second time watching 13 going on 30.
Wipe your tears for a while, wipe your nose for a while, and before the movie ends, the white tissue paper is all over the place.
Tears one:
[Career] At 31, I didn't live up to my expectations when I was 13
I am 31 years old this year. I used to think that at this age, I should have my own office like Jenna in the movie. I am excellent and excellent, and have a successful career.
But the reality is that I am starting a business. I am weak, and I am in a very early stage. I am more confused than determined. I even retreated and prepared to go back to work as an office worker. At the age of 31, I still have no success in my career, and I still have not married. Sitting alone at home in Beijing watching a movie. cold. Think of the 31-year-old self that I expected to be when I was 13, and look at the real-life version of myself that was nothing. Let's look at the career that the heroine has that I once aspired to. I couldn't hold back the tears.
Tears two:
【Love】The innocent heart of youth is gone forever
Which girl has never had a silent, fat suitor in her life? And every time I see a Mark Ruffalo movie. I'll always think of my buddy X - who happens to be my former suitor who looks and has a temperament similar to Mark's. Matt's chubby body, plain clothes and his love for Jenna are all so gentle, delicate, deep, reserved and even a little aggrieved. He is not the earth-shattering thunder of love, but my heart is touched. I couldn't help crying thinking of Mark's pure heart for Jenna when he was 13. I have also missed the innocence of X. Can't get back. And I am also growing up, forever missing my 13-year-old, extremely innocent time. I didn't leave anyone behind in innocent time. Neither was left behind by anyone. It makes me feel like I've lost a lot. Tears run out of control.
Tears three:
[Family Love] "I've become someone I don't like, I don't have real friends, ... I don't have contact with my family"
Like the 30-year-old heroine, I used to not keep in touch with my family, deliberately or inadvertently, during my 23-30 years. Because my father persuaded me to be independent since childhood and gave me certain expectations.
When I saw Jenna come home and hug Dad and say I miss you so much. But the 30-year-old heroine, a big child, got into her mother's bed. I couldn't help crying anymore.
Humans are truly a species that grows. But all growth comes from self-experience. When I was in my twenties, I was far away from my hometown. I went abroad alone and went to Beijing alone for 8 years. The first half of my life was almost spent in fear of my parents and hating my parents and feeling indifferent to them. From the age of 30 to the age of 31, my relationship with the strong mother began to improve, and my relationship with the indifferent father became warmer and warmer. I don't know how things started getting better. But my mother often tells me now: I can't leave you more and more. I am a stubborn child. I don't say it with my mouth, but in my heart, why isn't it? I started to like my parents, and I respected their views and everything they had said from the bottom of my heart, as well as the way they are now very different from mine.
When people grow up, they will understand their parents, they will start to act coquettishly to their parents, they will start to feel sorry for their difficulties, and they will love silently.
Director Gary asked a 30-year-old girl to take a 13-year-old girl's heart into her mother's bed, hugged her father's neck tightly, and asked her mother, "Do you want to regret the biggest mistake in your life?" Let me, 31 years old, burst into tears.
I've seen this movie twice, and when it started playing today I thought, I've seen it, forget it, let's change the one I haven't seen. But when I saw Jenna was moved and watched Matt explain to her everything that was done by hand in the pink house and sprinkled her wish powder for her. I know, this isn't a pointless American soap opera. This is the movie that tells about a warm life, makes you pay attention to the warm people around you, nourishes your body and mind, and nourishes things silently!
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