The first public account of rouwanxiaomian
The roommate D, who I just met recently, is good to see Miss Sister. She met a little brother B who always appeared by her side, because B always appeared by D's side, no matter what she did, it seemed that she could just meet her. Miss Sister D really thought it was too good. Fate took the initiative to ask for B's WeChat. The younger brother B is 87 years old, and the young lady D is 94 years old. Age is really not a problem in the face of rare heartbeats, and the public is more accepting of such things as male big and female small than female big male small.
Except for work, study and sleep, the two are tired of being together almost all the time. In my opinion, the two are destined, and they are not in different places, and it is just a matter of day and night to be together.
Two days ago, I was chatting with good-looking young lady, I asked her about the current situation of D and B, she said that the two of them are very good, the only thing they can't talk to is that little brother B's idol is Liu Bang, and young lady D's idol is Wu Yifan, except Other than that, the two seem to be a good fit.
Me: Are they in a relationship?
Miss: No?
Why do I?
Miss: Because B has never confessed.
Me: A relationship needs to be confessed?
The young lady looked at me in shock: Of course I need it!
Me: Does D like B?
Miss: I like it.
Me: Then why don't D confess first?
The young lady looked at me with a shocked expression: how can it be?
Me: why not?
Miss: If the woman confesses first, the man will not cherish it.
Me: If you want to cherish, you will always cherish it. I really don’t want to cherish it. Even if you are married and have children, you can find a mistress, have an illegitimate child, and then run away with your mistress with all your money, and maybe even join the mistress to kill you. Sister Qingxia, who has a beautiful face in a prosperous world, can't love the person she wants to love, let alone us ordinary people?
Miss Sister's eyes are dull: Sister, have you calculated the dark side of your heart?
The smile on Miss Sister’s face made my stomach hurt. I can understand Miss Sister’s reaction. Although I overreacted, for someone like me who has been feeding dogs with a girlish heart, those tricks and superstitions in the wind and moon It's nothing more than a self-deception trick .
"Whoever gets serious first in a relationship will lose."
"The one who takes the initiative when ambiguous is the one who loves more and the one who is easily hurt."
"Girls must be reserved when dating, otherwise they will not be cherished."
I have read a lot of these chicken soup phrases. There are only formulas and no examples. How can it be possible to draw inferences from one fact and bring them into practice?
"Quartet" said that girls should grasp the distance of a bottle of water.
I really like this kind of dialogue that suddenly jumps out of the narrative logic in Japanese dramas. It feels like nonsense, but every sentence is a summary of the screenwriter's life.
If time and space could be reversed, if the ending could be seen in advance, if the time for love was not in the future but a countdown, would you still care about those tricks and love schedules?
"Now to see you" starring Son Ye-jin and So Ji-sub should have given a good answer.
Son Ye-jin, who has a face of first love, is really a meal for her grandfather, and she will feel heartbroken whenever she sees it.
Do you think I'm going to talk about water-down emotional essays? Wrong, in fact, I'm still talking about movies.
This movie is a love fairy tale of a movie, if time can be reversed, if we want to be separated in the end, then use all the time now to love you hard.
There is no calculation and training in love in this movie, only the two secretly like each other when they are young or not.
There was no affectionate confession, and there was no nod and nod to agree.
Some are the golden theorems of time-travel, car accidents, and falling in love with Korean romantic dramas that are doomed to not last long.
Although analyzing this kind of pure love drama has never been my strong point, youth and campus romances have never had anything to do with me, but the kind of person I used to like with my entire youth also happened to like me at that time. Great. (Without punctuation, break the sentence by yourself.)
The plot introduction is that the younger sister is tempted earlier than the younger brother. The younger brother has been secretly confessing to the younger sister throughout his youth, but because she is too clumsy and because the younger sister is too reserved, the two always miss it. Later, the little sister encountered a car accident on the way to see her little brother. After the car accident, she traveled to eight years later. At that time, she had married and had a child with her little brother and had been dead for a year.
In that rainy season, she knew her little brother's heart and the tragedy that she was destined to leave. After the rainy season ended, she made a decision, even if she knew that she would eventually leave him, even if the two of them only had eight years, she would go to her little brother's side. Because she felt that what prevented her from dying in a car accident was her little brother's love for her and God's will.
The status of men and women in this kind of love story has always been uneven. From the naked man chasing a woman at the beginning, to the present scene where a man chases a woman but the woman has long been secretive, I always think it is the mainstream at present. Narrative logic under the influence of gender perspective. It is this kind of story that no matter who starts first, it is determined by the final recognition and acceptance of men, and women are always in the position of being selected and waiting to be recognized. As if, as if only in this way, this relationship can be recognized. Once a woman takes the initiative or is emotionally strong, it is considered to be evil or unclean, such as "The Graduate", "American Beauty", and "Lolita", which is talked about by people.
In love, it seems to be a consensus that women can't take the initiative, in a subtle self-cognition or out of protection of feelings. Women's expression of love in real life has chosen to be passive.
Teacher Li Yinhe explained this as a double standard.
"In our patriarchal society that has lasted for thousands of years, there is a double standard between men and women in sexual norms. This double standard is expressed in popular language: the more sexual activity of men, the better, and the sexual activity of women. The less the better. People always give positive comments on men's sexual activities. If a man has a lot of sexual experience, it can only mean that he has money, power, leisure, charm and even good health; Sexual activities, people always give negative comments, if a woman has a lot of sexual experience, it means that she is contemptuous, dissolute, and shameless, and people will ruthlessly cast her aside, just like they did to Mu Zimei.”
This is why the "Pretty Sister Who Often Treats Meals", which exploded at the beginning of this year, came out. It attracted a large number of old, middle-aged and young women, and I saw too many half-assistances in emotional scenes. I sang all the way to this kind of opening. Sweet to the end, everyone applauded. Many people said that the deer that had osteoporosis in their hearts also ran out and bumped.
Although the current public opinion no longer pursues the best female companion, it must satisfy Li Ao's "thin, tall, white and beautiful", and the beautiful sister is also within the scope of the young man's mate selection. Objectively speaking, big data shows that the proportion of men in my country has greatly exceeded that of women. If a young man is still obsessed with young girls, his road to an old bachelor will go smoother and smoother. On the other hand, subjectively, good media advocates that because of economic development and education awareness, older single women tend to be better educated and have a good income. Of course, there is a more bizarre way of thinking, which is to directly link older women with motherhood, and sisters in love can take care of people and be more sensible and considerate.
No matter which aspect of these three aspects is concerned, women are still objectified and become the other things that men need to grow in their lives. The little girl can be trained to become a darling of obedience, and the little sister is a life nanny who brings her own job.
Although the majority of women do not say this, they are still conscious.
That's why, when Miss Zhang Yuqi stabbed her husband angrily, women all over the country were as happy as they stabbed their ugly, lazy, and scumbag husbands with their own hands.
The awakening of female consciousness is accidental and inevitable.
However, since you have the ability to go crazy in the circle of friends, why can't you take the time to get a divorce?
Will D tell B to tell me that I can't tell? Maybe soon, maybe one day the two of them will stop contacting each other, and they will not communicate with each other.
I heard that "See You Now" still earned a lot of tears from young ladies. It can be seen that such an old stalk has a wide audience. As an inexperienced little screenwriter, I can't take my work out of the street, so I can only hide in the public account and point at me. I hope that there will be lucky screenwriters who can write some love stories of equality between men and women. Come What a nice story about love at first sight.
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