I never sing "Later" on KTV. The phrase "do not disturb, it is my tenderness" is already the limit of my nostalgia.
After reading [Later Us], I felt a big truth in life:
The current one is no better than the previous one.
Your ex can howl with you.
Howling "homecoming" at the fireworks in his hometown; in Beijing, there is a consonant howling at the sky in different directions.
Your ex is your best partner for cross talk.
When you ask "if we were back then", answer quickly and tease; even when you say "later we have everything" and immediately confront "but we don't have us" can it appear in top literary and artistic works 's good sentence.
The ex can die for you, and even drag you to death.
When you ride a bicycle, she sits in front of you, you only have her in your eyes, and you can't even see the road; if you hold her on the curb, she can go straight down to the road; the taxi can happily stick out halfway Howling so that even if the car behind you comes, her lower body will be with you.
The ex was always fresh and non-greasy.
She can wake you up with one sentence: Can't you just see your house, car, wife and children at a glance? There is a problem with your values.
Anyway, no matter how Li Zongsheng persuaded that "it is not a virtue to remember the past in love", others will not believe it. Even he himself admits to cowardice-
"I ask who you have seen Missing let go of?"
From [Predecessor], [Chunjiao and Zhiming], [Predecessor 3], the predecessor's ancestral tomb is unknown who dug it up, and every once in a while, it will be pulled out and put on incense sticks.
Missing your ex is a common emotion for human beings.
But I really love the innocent and missed ex, and the current one outside of the situation.
[Later us], for Lin Jianqing and Fang Xiaoxiao, the former boyfriend and girlfriend, has released the greatest goodwill.
Let Jing Boran and Zhou Dongyu play, more popular choices. One is a spirited boy, and the other is a hearty An Sheng.
Fang Xiaoxiao always said, "I am very young."
These two youthful faces swung there, and no matter what mistakes they made, they would be forgiven.
But there are two details that remind the audience that the reality is far more cruel than it appears on the surface.
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It's nostalgia, or the luck of the robber
Lin Jianqing was nostalgic and watched the fire with a few straits.
He said to Xiaoxiao, I think you are very miserable, alone.
"No support", relative to his "stable" at the moment.
When he made Xiaoxiao's judgment that he was "not having a good time", in fact, he had already tacitly acknowledged that he was "having a good life" with a hint of pity.
This sentence, which the speaker thought was sympathetic, was aggressive to the listener.
Therefore, Xiaoxiao immediately retorted:
I think there is a problem with your values. When I died, I had to stay in Beijing, wasn't it just because I could see my life at home?
You get married and have children, live a happy life, have a job, and have a stable life. You can see the future at a glance.
Lin Jianqing once hated this kind of life.
But he probably hated the inability to have such a life even more.
He hated to break with his hometown, quarrel with his father, and step by step to the situation of breaking up with Fang Xiaoxiao.
From beginning to end, Lin Jianqing was a contradiction.
He loves Xiaoxiao swearing swear words and drinking. That kind of messiness, for a fledgling college student, is equivalent to being free and unrestrained.
The Xiaoxiao in his eyes is what I described in the opening chapter. He has been howling as much as he wants, and has always been fearless of death and lawless.
But Xiao Xiaocai is not just like that.
She carefully calculates her weight, weighs the weight of reality, has a soft figure, can sell a cute person to help clear the siege, and when she can't stay in Beijing, she desperately tries to find a good family to marry.
Then she was moved by Lin Jianqing's sentence "Go up nine days to embrace the moon, go down five oceans to catch turtles".
She Fang Xiaoxiao, who can choose the most difficult path, think of the best future, and can bear the worst outcome.
But Lin Jianqing could never tell her true from false.
He thought that it was true that he wanted a house, and that he was moved by Shangjiu Tianwuyang, which was half-truth.
The last time the two celebrated the Spring Festival, Xiao Xiao faced him who had already bought a big house and said, "You don't understand me, you never understand me."
Even ten years later, this is still the case.
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Is it to miss, or escape from the stubborn exit
There was a scene where the incumbent in the audience felt chills.
Lin Jianqing was busy at home, and the background sound was the "main palace" in this story.
"Let me tell you, you have to be nervous about Yangyang going to school. It's hard to go to a kindergarten in Beijing. Whether Yangyang can go to a good school is up to you."
But just a moment ago, Jian Qing was in memory of his predecessor and sent a letter from his father (Tian Zhuangzhuang) to Xiao Xiao during his lifetime.
The key is that the sudden appearance of this scene is not so simple.
It is Lin Jianqing's "later" and the reference of his and Fang Xiaoxiao's "once".
Lin Jianqing didn't say anything, but such a scene severely pierced his mental activity.
Fang Xiaoxiao, who can squeeze into a small rental house with him, has an old sofa that he picked up, so he is so happy that his feet are raised.
The wife, in the big house, urged him to face the troubles in front of him.
The worst gesture of nostalgia is when you use it as an outlet for immediate dissatisfaction.
What's more, using children to go to school as a symbol of stubbornness in front of him really revealed that Lin Jianqing was still naive.
What did the incumbent do wrong?
The wife returned to her hometown with a big belly and Jianqing, but the father didn't even know that his son was married, so he held his daughter-in-law's hand and called him "Xiaoxiao".
The wife didn't have a seizure, she was stunned for a while, and went with her father obediently.
Who was not a white rose back then?
At the end of the film, the melon eaters sent congratulatory messages to their exes.
One of them is: XXX, I'm getting married.
I don't know how the person who is going to marry her feels when she sees this scene.
In fact, there is only one way to miss your predecessor: hold back.
I didn't say it until I died, I gave my life to my family, and the rest to Robert.
I never sing "Later" on KTV. The phrase "do not disturb, it is my tenderness" is already the limit of my nostalgia.
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Text: Jiang not stop
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