Let me talk about the zodiac signs of the two people I think. I think the male protagonist Dean is a Pisces, and the female protagonist Cindy is a Gemini.
Whether two twins are more interesting or tangled together, I think there will be. Gemini has a superficial spirituality and is stubborn in the heart; Pisces looks persistent, but in fact can rebuild the inner world at any time.
Blue Valentine's Day, a movie about Pisces & Gemini. Dean and Cindy's marriage is in trouble after six years together. The two wanted to take advantage of Valentine's Day to mend their relationship, and deliberately kept their daughter at their grandfather's house. They also deliberately found a love hotel, looking for new "exciting points" to stimulate their love. But the two had a dispute about their attitude towards life in the future, and the relationship not only failed to recover, but became more and more quarrelsome. Dean is at ease with his wife and daughter, but Cindy wants to start his own business. As the differences between the two continue to heat up, those moments of happiness in a good marriage have now become embarrassing and distressing memories. Does a relationship have to go through the "seven-year itch"?
Can two people who once loved each other keep their marriage from falling apart?
01
Pisces
Pisces want to wander, but the reason they wander is to find someone who can stabilize them.
The male protagonist Dean was such a wandering soul at the time, but after Cindy became pregnant, he said let's be a family.
Dean frowned at the wedding, but he couldn't help laughing when Cindy looked at him and said I hope they (witnesses) hurry up before you change your mind.
In fact, Pisces usually hangs around, but when they take responsibility, they will take their mistakes on themselves.
In the details, it also reflects the romantic skills of Pisces Dean's speech.
And Pisces is very artist temperament, is a born poet.
But at the same time Pisces has an unparalleled insight into reality.
At the end of the film, when Dean disappears alone in the fireworks, his daughter goes to pull him, and he says we race to see who runs to Mom first, then turns around and leaves. I love the perpetual softness of Pisces men and understand how they run away because they are vulnerable.
Fireworks, heralding fleeting love. Pisces love is like fireworks: lasting, dazzling, it is the light in the dark, but it will fade away silently when it is exhausted. Like Dean turning around in silence, he's so quiet, yet so hard.
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Gemini
It's really hard for me to explain whether Gemini is easily bored or too curious, like Cindy had 25 sex partners before college, but Gemini is very stable once identified, like Cindy meets Dean.
Cindy only sings the name of the president, and dances in general, just a very ordinary girl, but these ordinary gatherings in Cindy are very soulful.
Gemini is actually very inclusive, it seems that it can be matched with anyone, and it is easy to be influenced by others. But Gemini is also very easy to spot problems, but do not know how to solve them.
For example, Cindy is tired of worrying about all the trivial matters of the family, and Dean is only responsible for this mode of getting along with play and fun. She escapes to work and uses the external force of work to escape this relationship. But Pisces Dean is sensitive to perceive something wrong and wants to explain it. Gemini will transfer this kind of problem to the other party by evading, passively waiting for the other party to solve it before starting to face it.
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Pisces & Gemini: Passionate Romanticism & Unwilling Mediocre Realism
Cindy, the heroine of Gemini, wants to sleep more before going to work. Later, she has to make breakfast for her daughter, change clothes and send her to school, while Dean, the heroine of Pisces, is playing a musical instrument and hopes to have a more interesting life with her family. Her daughter does not like it Dean made the cereal made by his mother in a different form to make it more interesting for his daughter to eat, while Cindy felt that he should use a spoon normally.
Pisces Dean expresses my mad love to his daughter, listen to the teacher, then wear a cigarette and wear colorful pants stained with artist-like paint, while Gemini Cindy says if he doesn't leave, he will be late, Pisces Dean repeatedly stressed Fasten her seatbelt and scold that the flying car will crash if it drives too fast, while Cindy, a Gemini, said plainly that she knows and is busy driving.
Gemini's Cindy has no principle: her grandmother wants to smoke in the hospital after listening to the love story, Cindy said no, but she couldn't get her grandmother to pass her a cigarette. Cindy refused before Dean ordered the hotel, but complied with Dean. The lack of principles is also related to her family. Her father's strictness and rigidity always feel that anything is not good, and always say "no", which makes Cindy very sensitive to the word "no", so that she will not refuse.
And Dean has his own principles, dropping out of school to do the art he likes.
Although Cindy of Gemini has no principles for small things, his goals are very clear and even selfish; while Dean of Pisces is very low self-esteem, and has always hoped to fight for the family through his own efforts, but it is only "hope", and he has nothing to do every day. action.
How can you say that two people who are not related to each other fall in love?
Dean arranged the old man's belongings one by one when moving, and Cindy patiently told love stories while taking care of the old man. Do you think two people who are equally soft are worthy of each other?
Cindy's parents have long since had no feelings. Her father lost her temper with her mother because of a meal. She didn't want her to be like her parents, always looking for stability. Dean's parents divorced when he was 10 years old. His mother had someone else, and Dean hoped to meet him True love, do not repeat the mistakes of parents. They all have fantasies about love.
They are both brave and willing to make changes or sacrifices for each other. Gemini Cindy is more like a romantic realist, she has her own pursuit, but she feels that Dean is the right person, ignoring the economic basis; Pisces Dean is more like a realistic romantic, he has his own artistic dream, but In order to keep Cindy, for a complete family, he sacrificed his time in art to maintain the family.
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the last look of love
"When does love come to an end"
The dog they raised together dies, the end of a bond.
Cindy began to get busier and busier, Dean began to be suspicious and silently observe each other, what freedom means to Gemini may be the bottom line of life.
Cindy files for divorce, and Dean takes off the wedding ring in a fit of anger. Then when the car just started, he jumped out of the car without saying a word and went to the grass to desperately look for the ring that was just thrown away. What love means to Pisces may be the only attachment in life.
Two bruised and bruised people meet each other and become brave, but they are bruised and bruised by each other. Love is inherently difficult. It circulates its own appearance and never compromises.
I can't help but recall the beautiful beginning of love.
I think she looks familiar
she is different
like a song starts playing
You can't help but dance along
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