After the movie ended, I kept pulling my companions to ask why Xiao Zhaoxiao didn't get back with Jianqing?
He said that he probably felt that the other party was not with him when he was at a low point, and now that he is brilliant, he is no longer worthy of being by his side.
To be honest, I'm not very satisfied with this answer.
For the first time, I thought I might be a bit straight, because as a girl, I couldn't figure out why Xiaoxiao didn't get back with Jianqing.
All the obstacles of reality have disappeared, and they all have each other in their hearts.
I even thought the same as Jian Qing - I have worked so hard to become what you want, and I have everything you expected, why are you still reluctant to give me a chance?
After thinking about it for a long time, probably the answer has long been hinted.
Xiaoxiao cares more about spiritual wealth, while Jianqing, out of a sense of responsibility, hopes to give her lover a better material life.
As Xiaoxiao said, even if they didn't break up at the time, they might break up in the future, because the values of the two people are different.
The two of them were sitting in the hotel, and when they saw Qing's son sent a video, they said innocently—Dad, I want to see the left, Daddy, I want to see the right, Daddy, I want to see a circle, Daddy, I want to see the toilet.
A child of a few years old said these words, of course, the mother behind her was "teaching her". But seeing that Qing was only stranded in the hotel due to the sudden cancellation of the plane, why was his wife so nervous?
It is not difficult to imagine that the trust between the two may not be so solid. Or maybe, seeing the behavior early in the morning that made his wife suspicious.
Just like when Jian Qing was with Xiao Xiao, he was the female netizen who couldn't satisfy Xiao Xiao no matter what.
So in the snow, Jian Qing said, if we didn't care about getting married at the time, Xiao Xiao just replied, maybe you already have ten mistresses.
All women long for a sense of security and hope that they are the most special existence in this world in the hearts of their lovers.
It's a pity that many times, men's misdeeds are just to prove that they are not so bad.
But maybe, these are not the answers, the answer is just not enough love.
Maybe I love myself more than I love you.
So one didn't get off the subway, and the other didn't get on the subway.
So one chooses not to explain and turns and walks, and one chooses to stop struggling.
Later, Jianqing asked a lot of ifs, but I didn't ask, if I tried harder to keep you at that time, would you come back to me?
Later Xiaoxiao said a lot about maybe, but didn't say, maybe if I was a little firmer and loved you a little more, I wouldn't have so many regrets in the end.
Regret is regrettable, never because it is impossible, but because I could have.
I could have held your hand, but I didn't.
I could have not let go of your hand, but I didn't.
In the final analysis, all separations are just because of lack of love.
It's better to let go freely. Anyway, we can only talk about me and you later.
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