I hate the heroine because I saw my former self

Ernestina 2022-03-21 09:01:39

To be honest, after watching this movie, I was disgusted, angry, and even scolded a few words for the first time. The heroine of the movie does a lot of things that I hate. Whether it's about love, cheating, family, friends, or that kind of unkind attitude, it all hits the point of my anger.

However, it took about an hour for me to realize that I had this angry feeling just because the movie was so well done. I hate her so much because I see myself in her.

As a growing youth film, it combines a lot of growing up unbearable, struggling, wandering, going astray, tough, ignorant stubbornness, and yearning, anticipation, longing and even longing, as well as various experiences, love, family, growth. mixed together. So delicate and precise, it hits every audience's memories of youth. Yes, there is a sequence of hearing the Tao, and no one is born with the knowledge of spring and snow. Everyone has come to today step by step from the scars and unbearable memories of youth again and again.

I wrote an article before, saying that I have changed a lot, and now I am deeply disgusted by my previous behavior and thoughts. However, the one who hated me at the beginning was the one I knelt on the bed alone to forgive myself, it was me, me, me.

Youth is contradictory, absurd, and imperfect. It's going to be a waste no matter what. The English name of "Miss Bird": Lady Bird Taiwan translates as: Lady Bird is more expressive. Miss Bird named herself Bird, and refused to be called her real name by others. She pursued her imaginary distance stubbornly, resisted her fate, and struggled desperately.

She's right, she's wrong, she's reckless, she's delicate, she's vexatious one second, and the next is crying. She is like a bird seeking freedom, and like a gentle lady. In the end, she came to her own imaginary distance and realized what she had lost. Only then did I realize that the distance was just an ordinary place. Only then did I know that I no longer pretend to be a distant place, and only then did I understand what a distant place is.

The moment I watched the movie, I angrily scolded Miss Bird for being so immature and disgustingly ignorant. Blame this movie for its bad views. She scolded her for not understanding her father's tenderness. However, after more than half an hour, I accepted her. I understand this movie, and the good thing is, it's like I've accepted who I was. It turns out that what we hate most is that we were not good enough.

Thanks to the delicate and colorful experiences in the past, I have become who I am today. The good, the bad, the bland, the legendary, all grow up. So, after watching the movie for an hour, I thought, how can I meet my original self again, how can I embrace my only self. If I find myself, will I be kind and patient with my young, confused and confused soul like the father in the film?

Seeing yourself, seeing the heaven and earth, seeing all beings tolerate, reflect on yourself, accept and face yourself, can you tolerate and recognize all beings. Evaluating the film, those artistic music shots and acting skills, is simple. Criticizing the bad behaviors that the characters have done is also enough to open their mouths. But from a high-quality film, comprehending the essence of the director is the most precious thing. Non-stop experience, non-stop reflection, non-stop thinking, non-stop growth. I saw my youth in "Miss Bird", a film of American culture. Grateful for the experience and inspiration it gave me to keep going. Finish

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Lady Bird quotes

  • Larry McPherson: Hey, I'm like Keith Richards. I'm just happy to be anywhere.

  • Diana Greenway: I heard that before he became a priest, he was married, and had a son named Etienne, who died at 17 of a drug overdose, which maybe was a suicide. But my mom says same difference, if you're that careless with your life.