(Don't spray if you don't like it)
The film is beautifully shot, and the ratings are also high, but I'm really disappointed. I know that this film made the LGBT community climax, and many friends said that he cried after watching it. Although I am a rotten girl and have no prejudice against the LGBT community, I still have my own bottom line.
Let's look at it from a woman's point of view. The two male protagonists have a good impression of each other, but they try to test each other by being ambiguous with other girls. Elio didn't know if he wanted to hide that he was gay or what, and took the initiative to approach a girl and have a relationship. Then he left the girl with Oliver. Elio undoubtedly hurt the girl deeply, but he did not show any remorse to the girl. In the end, the girl stepped forward and said, "I'm sorry I didn't get mad at you, we are still good friends." WTF drifted by, yes, you are gay, of course I have to choose to forgive you, what logic is this?
Then Oliver was obviously having an affair with another girl, but he didn't abandon her as a result.
In the end, Oliver got engaged, and Elio sat in front of the fireplace crying for a few minutes, and I rolled my eyes. I know what it emphasizes is that the separation here is compared with the happy time of the previous two people, rendering their poignant separation and emotional purity. I don't know if I missed the plot, I don't know why Oliver chose to get engaged to a woman, why he didn't stay with Elio, whether it was social pressure or something, I didn't see it clearly. In fact, this also reflects the plight of homosexuality in reality. There are various pressures from society. But ah, here is too much emphasis on their tragic separation, and I think if Oliver wants to get married, it is normal to break up. Marriage represents responsibility. Since you have chosen a person, you must take responsibility and take it as a matter of course.
This reminds me of many same wives in society who choose to get married without knowing that their husbands are gay at first, and finally become a tool for their husbands to have children and a shield against society... So I feel very uncomfortable when watching the film.
The topic of homosexuality has become more and more hyped recently, and countless people want to speak out for lgbt. Originally, homosexual behavior can be learned. I am worried that some straight people who have not formed their own concept of right and wrong will consciously change themselves because they think it is cool. into the lgbt community. For this group, you can emphasize the rationality of your existence, but you must also comply with social ethics and be responsible for your own behavior. I hate double standards, the requirements for ordinary people are the same as for people in the lgbt community.
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