There is a song by Liang Jingru called "Unconditional for You". I used to like to sing in KTV. Every time I sing it, I always think of the original appearance of my family. I remember that when I was young, my mother always told us: The most important thing in this world is your family, because only your family will love you unconditionally in this world. At a young age, I don't understand but I don't understand. I gradually understand how precious unconditional love is when I grow up. All the precious things in this world are scarce, and they are often well hidden, so that people need to tirelessly use different methods to slowly understand them.
The latest cartoon "Dream Traveling" produced by Pixar is a colorful and lively way of telling the importance of family and the inseparability between family members. The story takes place in Mexico, where family values are the most important. The traditional "Day of the Dead" (similar to our "Ching Ming Festival") expresses the nostalgia for the family members who have passed away. The plot is simple and the theme is old-fashioned, but it still makes us willing to fall into its colorful world, unknowingly become the little boy who loves music, Miko, and find the best for the confusion and anxiety that has been hidden in our hearts for a long time. Answer.
["Dream" will not be the enemy of "Love"]
In real life, the biggest conflict between us and our family often comes from our own thinking and the anticipation of the family. For example: what you want to do is considered unrealistic by your family; for someone you want to love, your family finds it unbelievable. However, these two are the most important foundations of the life we really want to live. If you go against yourself, a good life becomes an illusion; if you go against your family, even if you do whatever you want, it is difficult to be truly comfortable. Because family members care about each other, they have the ambivalence of eager to do what they want, but don't want to disappoint the family.
In the movie, Michael, who loves music, faces a dilemma in the face of his family members who regard music as a curse. The dream is not recognized by the people who care, even if it gets a lot of approval, it seems that there is a corner missing in my heart. Therefore, Migao tried his best to prove his ability to his family. Isn't this just like our persistence to ourselves in real life? However, it is precisely because the thoughts of our family and our family are like two parallel lines. Rather than trying hard to prove that our choice is not wrong, the more important thing is to walk into each other's heart .
Family: Music is a "curse". Let the originally happy family never reunite.
Michael: Music is "memory". Awaken the forgotten good years and the love that has always existed.
The movie music is so good! The very gentle "Forget Me Not" is not only an important fame song, but also a key to restarting memories. As time goes by, many things that we thought we would remember forever, sometimes we just thought we were. Fortunately, music is more lasting than memory, precious memories that have been accidentally forgotten by time, there is always music to remember for us.
And is music a "curse" or "love"? I think this may be a question of what I see and feel in my heart. The phrase "good for you" that frequently appears in movies is also a very familiar phrase in real life, and it most often comes from the family. for example:
"You are not allowed to work in music and art because you are afraid that you will not be able to support yourself at all. 』
"Don't let you associate with people who are not suitable, because you don't want you to waste your youth. Anyway, you won't be able to get married in the future. 』
In terms of outcome theory, the above is indeed all "good for you", but life is not only an outcome, or it should be said that the reason for such an outcome is also because many processes that are considered unimportant are omitted. If people don't try what they really like, how can they know if there will be other possibilities in the future? If you never just love someone sincerely without asking the result, how can you realize how profound the impact of love on life is?
"Good for you" is not wrong in itself, but there should be something to follow : I am good for you, but if you really feel good about it, that's good . The most lacking among family members is often the respect we must have in other emotions. Many times it is suspected that there is no love, but what there is not is "respect". With respect, you will not always interpret love from your own perspective.
A small detail in the movie touched me! In the spiritual world, ghosts without family members are also very lonely, so they become family members of each other, and they can also have love without blood relationship.
Dreams come from love, how can they be enemies with love? Love and dreams are like a family, and a real family is the one who blesses you unconditionally.
[Different worlds, the same colorful]
The interaction between the human world and the spiritual world is a particularly interesting part of the movie. The appearance of a person becoming a ghost after death is actually not terrible at all, it is a bit ugly and cute, and it feels thinner than before. The character of each ghost is equally distinct, the difference is only that they have gone to a different world. And the problems that people haven't solved before death have to face when they become ghosts after death.
The film conveys: Death is not the end, but the continuation of life in another world . I like the view that people fear death because they don’t understand the world after death. What we are really afraid of is actually: the uncontrollable unknown and the eternal parting. If death is nothing more than reunion with your deceased family and friends in another world, it's good to think about it, what else is there to be afraid of?
I have always liked the traditional costumes of Mexican women. The brightly colored dresses are covered with meticulous embroidery, which is both character and feminine. It looks so good! In the movie, even the old-fashioned Coco wears an embroidered dress, which is very cute and exquisitely painted. Clothing and music have the same performance in the same way, and they are both longer than memory. Memories will disappear because of people's aging, but the love deep in the subconscious will not. This is why Cocoa when she was a little girl listened to the same song as Cocoa when she was old, and she could find a similar sense of happiness on her face in a dress that she could also wear when she was a girl.
People's appearance will change over time, but people's xinxing can remain unchanged, just like Disney cartoons, no children dislike it, but it can also be the eternal love of aging adults.
The movie is very touching! I heard that many people cried and became dogs, but I didn't cry, and I felt very warm in my heart! I also thought of my little girlfriend who had just lost her mother for more than a month in New Zealand. Her mother was only in her 50s, much younger than my mother. For more than a month, I always want to do something for her? She doesn’t want to use Moments anymore, because in the past, every Moments had comments from her mother. She used Weibo, and I watched her on Weibo, or liked or commented, sometimes even my own Weibo. I didn't even look at it, just look at her. As before, we occasionally share the little beauty of life on WeChat, share bad emotions, and care about social issues together.
For her life: everything has changed.
Time can’t go back, nor can it stop. No matter the happiness or sadness, the days continue... But, just like the sentence in the trailer of the movie Secret Superstar: " Don’t cry because everything is over, be grateful that it happened. Everything . Although she can't accompany her like her mother, but I hope she knows that our family who is not related by blood can also become her real family.
If life is destined to be a series of lost processes, the only thing we have to do is to treat the important people in life more carefully. We live up to this life, and look forward to reuniting with our loved ones in a better world in a long time.
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