To love him, not to change him

Owen 2022-03-24 09:01:21

The rugby field is full of hunts, interceptions and collisions, which are dangerous, but also touched by unity and resistance. With his talent and hard work, the protagonist of the movie, Mike O'Her, has become the guardian of the football field.

He was a black kid who grew up in a slum, and his childhood gray memories made him lose his sense of security, and he was fully guarded against anyone when he did anything. The loneliness and cold always surround him, and he is so pitiful that he has never owned a bed of his own since he was a child.

Everyone calls him a big man, but he hates this title very much, because he only hopes to be an ordinary person who is equal to everyone.

As that sentence said, when life is in desperate situation and desperate, a turning point will appear, because even life is not embarrassed to bully him again.

Fortunately, he met a new family full of love and sincerity. There, he was not a big man, nor an alien, but a family member. They used the most suitable love to warm him, help him, let him put down his defenses, let him find his smile, help him show his confidence, and help him find his best self.

The best love is not to give him the best financial conditions, but to push him forward in the most suitable way after knowing enough. It may not be difficult to achieve success. More often than not, the opponent has not had time to play. We have been defeated by our own laziness.

Regardless of whether you treat your family or your lover, put away the saying "I'm all for your good!" Love him with your heart, instead of changing him, you will find that the weather is really good today.

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The Blind Side quotes

  • Miss Sue: You like Tennessee? That's a good school. Not at the academic level of Ole Miss but they have an outstanding science department. You know what they're famous for? They work with the FBI, to study the effects of soil on decomposing body parts. When they find a body, the police wanna know how long it's been dead. So the fine folks at Tennessee help them out. Oh, they have lots of body parts. Arms and legs and hands, from hospitals and medical schools. And do you know where they store 'em? Right underneath the football field. So while it's fine and dandy to have 100,000 fans cheering for you, the bodies you should be worried about are the ones right under the turf. Set to poke up through the ground and grab you... Well, it's your decision where you wanna play ball. Don't let me influence you.

  • Michael Oher: Mrs. Touhy?

    Leigh Anne Touhy: I hear "Mrs. Touhy" I look over my shoulder for my mother-in-law. Call me Leigh Anne or Mama or almost anything else.