The heroine is a writer and a typical representative of modern women—independent, strong, optimistic, and beautiful. After divorce, she raised three children by herself, but she still lived a good life. She interacted with Xiao Xianrou who was 20 years younger than herself. If you say break up, break up, hold the initiative in love, and set a principle for yourself-not to touch married men.
It was these two people who fell under the magic of love at the moment of meeting. One almost abandoned a happy family, and the other almost violated the principles that have been adhered to for many years.
From a moral standpoint, this is clearly the story of a male protagonist cheating on a divorced woman. Why is every part of their relationship so beautiful, making people yearn and even forget the fact of their cheating, and sincerely hope that they can have lovers Eventually they got married, and even their respective friends were persuading them to abandon their secular concepts and come together. The friend of the man thinks that the man should get rid of the shackles of the family and be a love hero; the friend of the woman thinks that she should break the shackles of morality and obey the call of love. Even fate has created opportunities for them to meet again and again, and the two are indeed matched. Even when they checked-in, they were mistaken by the waiter as husband and wife. When they realized their "unusual" relationship, Infected by the harmony between the two, he offered to arrange them on the same floor.
Why is a typical infidelity so beautiful that people can't bear to blame? I think there may be several reasons.
First, the male protagonist is not actively looking for cheating objects. The male protagonist's friend said: "It's not accidental that you cheated at this age, it's an inevitable product of the marriage going on to a certain stage, and you can't be blamed." However, no matter how his friends clean up for him, the male protagonist still can’t convince himself to betray his family, he can’t let go of his wife and young children, so every time he cheats, he struggles with pain, and he hugs guiltily after returning home. Wife, stroking her son reproachfully, struggling between love and responsibility.
Second, the male protagonist is a kind, gentle and kind person. This is reflected most vividly in the daily interaction between the male protagonist and his family. He is a loving father. Although he has a busy job as a successful lawyer, he always spends a lot of time with his family, playing games with his son, doing homework with his daughter, and taking a positive attitude towards communication when there is a crack in the relationship between husband and wife. In the process of cheating, he did not let himself go, and obeyed the domination of desire. It's no wonder that his wife saw the tacit understanding between him and the hostess at a friend's party and noticed that the two were cheating. Instead of making a hysterical scene, she didn't mention a word, still talking and laughing with her husband, Because she wants to save her husband's feelings, she understands that his husband is not a ruthless, abandoned person. I want to praise my wife's emotional intelligence here. I have to say that his wife is also a smart person. She knows that crying and making trouble can't solve the problem at all, but can only deepen the gap with her husband and accelerate the breakup of the marriage. If the male protagonist decides to break with the family as soon as he falls in love with the female protagonist, I am afraid that he will not be able to win the admiration of the female protagonist, making her so hard to let go of the male protagonist.
Third, love is beautiful. The state of two people being together is so happy that they can give up their dignity and don’t care about gains and losses in love, only tacit understanding and congenial heart, so that plants, trees, fish and birds are moved by it, how rare and rare such love is, who can bear to blame and use it Moral dogma to stifle this beautiful emotion? ! However, love is really elusive. Some people can't find it all their lives. Some people think it's a fake when they find it. Some people give up looking for it in frustration, but she accidentally breaks in. How many people have we heard the reason for divorce is: I just found out that I don't love her/him, I realize that the past is not admonished, and I know that whoever comes can be chased, and now I am going to pursue true love! Such people are easily dominated by desires and impulses, and cannot distinguish what true love is, because for them a little bit of stimuli, impulses and lusts beyond reality can be interpreted as love. They don't understand that love doesn't have to be owned. Once the flower of love is put into the marriage box, it may suffocate and die. At that time, they will look for the so-called "true love" and fall into a "find-and-lost" situation. in cycle.
Love is a flower, just let her open quietly, grow freely, appreciate her color and enjoy her fragrance without picking it. Once the flower is picked, her life has an expiration date. Just like the sentence written by the hero at the end: If you want a story to never end, don't let it begin.
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