I watched this short play in two afternoons. The one night pause during the period was because it was brought in by the plot, and the mood became very bad. The viewing experience is, after all, a very personal thing. When you are brought into the plot, you will also bring your own life experience into it. The part that resonates becomes the heaviest part of the viewing process. At the moment when that part gets bad, it suddenly becomes clear that life itself is pulling you out of literature. This is a contradiction. My heavy life can no longer bear the extra part brought by literary works. But it is because of the depth of life and the experience of real emotions that the rope between it and literary works is tightened. The greater the sense of resonance, the more suffocated I feel, but it is also at this time that I go deep into the core part of the work. The description of the relationship between reader and writer in the Khazar Dictionary is extremely thorough. "Two men each pull one end of a rope, and tie a cougar in the middle of the rope. Imagine this scene. If they want to Get close to each other and the cougars will pounce on them because the ropes will loosen; the ropes must be pulled tight. The seclusion kept the jaguar equidistant from them. By the same token, writers and readers find it difficult to get close to each other; they each hold their own side by the end of the rope, while their shared thoughts are tightly tied. If we ask the cougar, that is, the mind, what it thinks of those two. It might answer something like this: The two prey, which could be used for a full meal, each pulled one end of the rope and caught something they could not eat." Good food is poisonous. Everything is poisonous. It's all like that, including love. Being married, having a family. A family changes, like a plant exposed to the cruelty of nature. Nature doesn't rain when it's time to water or lack it The reason for the light is to provide the right amount of constant sunlight. What is it that sustains the family in the end and grows into a big tree in 25 years? Of course not all trees, no family will be able to share the same experience. "Whenever you see a pair of Husband and wife, I first imagine how they make love.” Sex is the most beautiful reconciler in married life. Celeste has never left her domestic violence husband, except to maintain a seemingly perfect marriage for her two sons, the wonderful and intense sex after being beaten. A dose of opium instantly relieves the pain and increases the fleeting illusory happiness. In celeste, everything before is reconciled in an instant. She herself said that there will be a handover of power after this. It's like a seesaw. She will wait until the next domestic violence. Before, all pampered goddesses. Crazy sex is wonderful and dangerous. Madline's infidelity lasted for three months, more crazy sex than she and Ed, in the car, in a theater with no people. Ed says he and Madline never had intense sex. Madline told jane they had very little sex with Ed. Pain relief, soothing stress sex. Madline was addicted too. There is no perfect family on the show, each Families have all kinds of conflicts. But life goes on. Women fight when they should, enjoy sex, fight back, all of which make us stronger.
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