I just watched the first and second episodes, what should I say, this should be the experience of a relatively failed person.
First, since everyone lives in society, they are bound to suffer setbacks and even bullying. As a bystander, we can keep blaming the society, but as a client, when the external environment is like this, how can we keep blaming others instead of trying to change ourselves to adapt to it? In biology, seeking advantage and avoiding disadvantage has been the instinct of biology since ancient times. Survival of the fittest is the cruelest but basic law of nature, no matter how much we humans sing the praises of human nature.
Second, who hasn't been excluded or bullied at school? As long as there are people, there must be people who dislike you and question you. On the contrary, someone will definitely like you. I still remember my high school experience. Because of some things that broke down with my classmates, I also felt that I was surrounded by top students from Tsinghua University and Peking University, and I was a scumbag, and I became suspicious since then. I feel that others have been secretly talking about me behind my back, and I feel that every time the teacher looks at me with the contempt of "you are such a student". In the end, it deteriorated to the point where he didn't dare to go to school anymore, and lay in bed at home all day, thinking that it would be good if he died suddenly. Finally, I took the college entrance examination casually, and finally got out of the vicious circle.
But after going to college, I found that there are many, many people around me who have this experience. Some have already experienced those unbearable words in junior high school, and some also have a nervous breakdown due to too much pressure. So what I want to say is that the problems encountered by the heroine in this film are actually encountered by everyone. The difference is that each of us chose to persevere, but the heroine chose to commit suicide, and by the way, also blackmailed those she resented.
Doesn't this kind of revenge appear to those who have been wounded to be full of blood and pleasure?
Unfortunately, the reality is never like this. We are hurting others when we are hurt. There is a word called "glass heart". I never figured out what its real definition was. If the heroine Glass Heart committed suicide, I was even more shocked by the sarcasm and contempt for her good intentions when she spoke to the dean. When others help you with kindness, you laugh at others; when others betray you, it is all the fault of others that you cry and shout. Didn't the heroine notice the hurt she did to others? As said in "1984", you hurt me and I hurt you. There are countless people who have hurt you: teachers who have called you stupid; classmates who despised you; unintentional words among friends. If every time we hurt us, we use a small note to write it down seriously, then these things will really squeeze you tightly in the land of ghosts and Rakshasa, and your heart will be full of resentment, and you will not be able to get rid of it. And those who hurt you, they won't know and won't pay attention. Everyone is the protagonist of their own life, who cares about other supporting roles?
So it's better to forget. Throw those things in the corner of time and move forward bravely. Thinking of revenge all the time, he also tied a shackle to himself invisibly.
I have always believed in this truth: no one is responsible for your life. And no one will ever come to your rescue. You are your own savior. Anyone who has experienced this kind of pain must feel the same way. However, when looking back on the past, I also want to give a tender hug to the fragile, helpless and desperate self, and tell myself that everything will pass.
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