This Indian film has a strong artistic style. The performances of the actors are all very good, except for the heroine. I can't let go of my beauty. The two male coaches not only look good, but also perform well. Cry when it's time to cry.
It's a simple family ethics movie. A middle-aged parent with two sons and a father-in-law in his 90s. The father-in-law played the role especially well. He is always rehearsing his own death in the film, and it is very interesting to entertain the god of death every day. It really brings the phrase "the older the younger" to life. The acting of the two actors who play the middle-aged couple is also great. Seeing their expressions and actions, they feel like many ordinary real parents.
The plot of the story is simple. Because the actors perform well and the director's narration style is good, the film is very engaging.
The story begins with the introduction of the grandfather wanting to take a family portrait, and the grandchildren who have grown up and become self-reliant rush home because of this. All the family members got together again to take a story like a complete family portrait. As the Chinese saying goes, "Every family has a hard-to-read scripture". This ordinary family, like thousands of ordinary families, lives a life that is calm on the surface but surging underground. Some family members are contradictory to each other, there are happy and unhappy sides. There are no big secrets or big conspiracies on the unhappy side. These are also the emotions of some people who are themselves innocuous. But it was these emotions that finally broke out in the process of taking the family portrait. After watching the whole film, you will find that the unhappiness of everyone in the family comes from the woman who is the mother of the child.
Dad was unhappy, because the investment failed, leaving the family in financial distress. You don't have to eat soil, but you need to be careful and frugal. Every now and then, when financial expenses are needed, my mother complains, complains about failed investments, and complains about father lending money to his brother. Dad, in order to relieve the pressure of this complaint, there is a "thought" in private.
The eldest son is unhappy, and he bears the encouragement and hope of his mother since he was a child. He does not dare to disappoint his mother, he feels tired, and he does not dare to speak frankly about his sexual orientation.
The younger son is unhappy, and since he was a child, he feels that his mother loves his brother, so in his heart, in order to gain the affirmation of his mother, he constantly challenges himself by doing things, and hopes to defeat his brother. But instead, Mom felt that he was too casual and didn't care about anything.
As a result, my brother, who is a writer, encountered a bottleneck when he was writing. The mother gave the younger son's idea to the older brother. Of course, she thought that she felt sorry for the eldest, and that the younger "wouldn't care". In fact, the youngest is very concerned, he has always wanted to be a good writer.
After watching this movie, there is always a feeling of being out of breath for this mother. Although the role of "Mom" is not a female lead, the lines and the camera are not too much. But the joys, sorrows and sorrows of other characters are all involved with her. The screenwriter gave the mother too much harshness and too much responsibility. Of course, the mother's responsibility is great, and if she doesn't do it well, she is also the most critical.
When both sons cried and expressed their dissatisfaction with their mother, the mother was surprised and shocked. In fact, according to ordinary eyes, she is really a good mother by lowering the standard. Better than most moms. Industrious, capable, filial, has his own dream, and hopes to open his own cake shop one day.
But this excellent mother still made everyone somewhat unhappy. If this mother can get 80 points, the price of her final advancement to perfection is too high. She reflected, fighting each other because of the hysterical cries of her sons. In the process of saying goodbye to her husband, she accidentally encountered a car accident.
Although the plot of letting my father get into a car accident is a bit deliberately done for the artistry of the film. But the emotional direction is real. At first, my mother was reluctant to reflect, and still stubbornly determined what she thought was right. For example, she is reluctant to admit that she does not favor the youngest. In fact, I think she really does not realize that she is biased, but in fact she is really biased. The eldest son has been away from home for many years, and the house remains as it is, while the second son's house has become a storage room in disguise. The eldest son is gay, she reprimanded and felt disgusted. Her husband has a mistress, and she feels cheated and reprimanded. But when her sons cried and complained that her current predicament was due to the mother's different attitude towards them, she suddenly realized that it was really not a unilateral derailment whether it was her husband's betrayal. It seems that she is also responsible. Miandu's son came to her face to destroy and disapprove of her education method. She relaxed and began to reflect. She picked up the phone and called her husband who had just scolded away. The husband was involved in a car accident the moment he answered the phone.
After watching this video, I really feel how difficult it is to be a mother. She needs to do a lot for this family, not just in people's minds, in the traditions. Her role is so great that the slightest neglect can cause the family to fall apart.
Of course, reflection on this matter should not be limited to a mother considering whether her behavior is inappropriate in her son's growth and in her husband's life. Other family members should also reflect, so that there can be a positive interaction. Otherwise, it is too much to bear as a mother.
One of my besties and I both felt unhappy childhoods, which in turn affected our lives as adults. We would often get together and berate mothers.
In fact, we eat and eat carefully. Some of our injuries come from other people, but for some reason, we especially blame our mother in our hearts. She was abused by her father since she was a child. Although she hated her father, she also hated her mother for never helping her. This is natural.
I live in a mean, powerful, complex family that lacks education and love. Because I was destined to live with my grandfather, it was inevitable that I would always deal with relatives. My mother was also a victim. But what I hate most about her is that she passed on to me day after day her own resentment plus her pessimistic and pessimistic emotions that she never introspected. I don't want to go into detail about the experiences of various middle-aged people, because people still can't let go of these things when they are middle-aged, and they get upset when they think about it.
Since I got married, I have stayed away from her and have more contact with other people's mothers. Only then did I realize that she was the one who had abused me for so many years. She tortured herself and others with a kind of mental torture. It can be said that she is one of the most pessimistic housewives in the normal range I have ever seen. Negative energy is continuously radiating. Having stayed with her for a long time before, I can endure her complaints. But after we stopped living together every day, I felt particularly annoyed when she opened her mouth to complain.
Complaining too much is pointless. Just like my mother herself, because of her husband's anger, and without her own mother's care, my sister-in-law and sister-in-law are not kind, and her own illness is deepening, which is pitiful enough. But I never felt pity for her from the bottom of my heart, and even I felt that my love for her was dwindling. The love faded away with every word she complained about.
Being a good mother is really hard. Like the mother in the film, I already think she is good enough, but her husband is still cheating, and her son is still unhappy.
I think instead of thinking about being a good mother, it is better to think about being a perfect woman. Kind, selfless, considerate. Become a mother and inject 100% courage. In my heart, a good mother is a transparent glass wall, which shields the children from wind, rain, cold and pressure, but there is always sunshine in.
"Women are weak, but mothers are strong." When I was alone, I was weak, complaining, afraid and fearful. When I become a mother, I will try to be sunny, strong, optimistic and upward. The outside wind and rain will definitely corrode my soul and body. I try not to pass on all my painful emotions to my lovely daughter.
Don't let your child live in anxiety. Giving her a good life is the driving force for me to keep working hard.
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