How do we live a life that cannot be restarted

Karelle 2022-03-22 09:01:33

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>>>>> The role played by Casey in the film was originally planned to be played by Matt Damon (later known as Dummy) (the original idea for the story came from Dummy), because "Manchester by the Sea" was played by Ben and Matt Produced by Pearl Street Pictures, co-founded by Damon. But Daemon was busy growing potatoes on Mars in The Martian, a role given to Ben's younger brother, Casey Fleck, who became a producer.

Xiaoben and Daimeng presented awards to the film director as guests

Three brothers, one Cassie on the left, a small and medium-sized book, and a cute one on the right

>>>>> The director of the film, Kenneth Lonergan, made a cameo appearance as a passer-by with Lee.

An angry director

>>>>> Pearl Street Films was founded in 2012 by legendary Hollywood buddies Ben Affleck and Matt Damon, and is said to be named after a street name in honor of their childhood.

The Promised Land, The Bourne 5 and Life in the Dark are all produced by Pearl Street Pictures.

The one-piece building at 40-48 Pearl Street, Cambridge, Massachusetts, USA

>>>>> In 1980, Matt Damon, a 10-year-old living in Cambridge, Massachusetts, met 8-year-old Ben Affleck on the way to the bookstore with his mother. Their homes are two blocks apart, and they both dream of becoming actors. Hollywood's most legendary CP became attached to this, hey, what happened to Guan Kaxi?

A happy face and two wooden-faced brothers

Just had a bad smile

>>>>> In 1993, Casey, Xiaoben and Daemon shared a lease in Los Angeles. Xiaoben and Daemon were sullen to write the script of "Good Will Hunter", and Casey worked in restaurants.

Robin Williams (center) wins Best Supporting Actor Oscar for Best Original Screenplay for Good Will Hunting

>>>>> Manchester-by-the-sea is a real small town in America. It has a history of more than three hundred years. In 1989, it was renamed Manchester by the Sea in order to distinguish it from the Manchester United team, sorry, and to distinguish it from the British city of Manchester and the nearby state of New Hampshire (there are actually many Manchesters) .

This beautiful seaside town has a population of 5,136 and 2,147 households (2010 census), located in Essex County, Massachusetts, USA.

Town Hall, taken in 2009

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Local Church, photographed in 2009

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>>>>> Singing Beach (Singing Beach, or Singing Beach), one mile from the center of the town, is a famous tourist attraction. When you walk on the beach, the sand squeezing makes a noise, hence the name.

Music Beach in 1914

>>>>> "Manchester by the Sea" was the most popular screenplay in Hollywood's 2014 screenplay blacklist.

Bursting Drummer, The Social Network, Juno, The Hangover, World War Z, American Sniper, and more are all from this list.

The Hollywood script blacklist (Blacklist) is different from the blacklist in the QQ address book. This is a list of screenplays that are of good quality but have not yet been made in the industry. The site was created in 2011 by Universal Studios pre-development manager Franklin Leonard. The site's tagline is: Where filmmakers and material meet.
Many scripts are circulated among major Hollywood studios, read over and over again, and consume a lot of human energy. On Christmas Eve 2005, Leonard emailed 80 of his peers, asking them to list the best plays they'd seen that year, just to have something to watch for Christmas, and he would share those lists with his peers. In the end, he screened out the list of better quality but not produced and named it "Blacklist". Later, the list went viral and became known as the "Hollywood Buy List."

>>>>> The ship Claudia Marie left by my brother in the film is named after my brother's mother. It can be seen at the funeral at the end of the film.

>>>>> Casey Fleck is a strict vegetarian.

>>>>> Brother Joe Chandler (Joe Chandler ) is called Kyle Chandler (Kyle Chandler ).

Kyle Chandler in The Wolf of Wall Street

>>>>> Lee Lee, played by Casey, mentioned that he was going to Charlestown, Charlestown. Casey's brother, Ben, wrote, directed and starred in a crime film "The Town" (The Town), which revolves around Charlestown. , Xiaoben lived there in the film, and at the end of the film, Xiaoben also left the town.

I actually had a brother who robbed a bank in Charlestown.

Little Ben and Hawkeye in "The Thief in the City"

"The Thief in the City" is also a collection of big names. I like the long johns very much. Those who have seen it must remember this code: "It'll be just like one of my sunny days." (Today is like a sunny day in my life).

>>>>> In the film, Patrick's friends frantically discuss "Star Trek". Matt Damon had intended to play the role of Captain Kirk in "Star Trek 11", but director JJ felt that it was too cute and too old (this psychological shadow area...).

Captain Kirk played by Chris Pine

>>>>>The two nurses got stuck when they lifted Li's early stage into the ambulance and waited for a long time. This was an unexpected situation outside the script.

>>>>> Come and see this retro town sign.

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small town sign


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How can we live a life that cannot be restarted?

In front of 'Manchester by the Sea', all the tearful films look promiscuous and superficial

Manchester by the Sea is a film about life and sadness. The actor Cassie and the character are perfectly integrated. We can't hear his heartbreaking cry, let alone a tear on his face, but we can clearly feel the sadness in his heart that can't be healed at any time. .

Qiuku doesn't like to watch sad movies, because there is already a lot of sadness in my life that my little heart can bear. Manchester, however, offers a chance to spy on someone else's grief, and you can sit quietly in front of the screen and watch him be consumed by memories, without having to go through any of his pain.

From the beginning of Li's ordinary life, we can see that this humble and bald blue-collar worker has only his body walking in life, but his soul is completely outside the world. He is everywhere, yet as transparent as air. And he only deals with inanimate things, and with people, he doesn't even have the most basic etiquette.

In life, almost nothing made sense to him. A phone call seemed to give him a breath of breath in his stagnant life, but it was the news of the death of his closest brother. Facing this sudden bereavement, my brother's colleagues couldn't hide their tears of sadness, but he lost all the expressions that ordinary people have. "Fuck this" is his only attitude.

The audience began to wonder, why the male protagonist can accept the misfortune in life so calmly? Why is he alive like the walking dead? The grief of losing a loved one opened a wound in his heart that would never heal.

One fire, three lives, one family. He lost everything.

The pain he experienced can instantly wipe out the powerful survival instinct that has made human beings reproduce to this day.

Suicide is not simple. Psychologically, everyone who commits suicide must break through the powerful psychological barrier produced by human survival instinct.

This is the most blunt expression of the most hopeless pain in the world I have ever seen.

The film does not show how he "survived" peacefully afterwards. Perhaps, he has given up all thoughts about life and death.

For any flesh and blood in the world, the wound that has lost everything is doomed to never heal. And Li's heart that can experience the four seasons will always stay in the cold winter. The pleasant and beautiful scenery and the active flirting of strangers, in front of him, are like the warm air exhaled by people in winter, disappearing into the cold air in the blink of an eye.

From then on, he was alive, but already dead, he was just a walking corpse.

The redemption of two

The death of one person binds the other two together and becomes their common redemption.

Some people ask why the father is dead and the son is not sad at all? It's not that he's not sad, but that he chose to seal the pain in the deepest part and dare not touch it. There are no focused outbursts, but the kind of tingling that has been sporadically flared throughout life is even more heartbreaking.

Any trifle in life can provoke this pain. Frozen chicken in the freezer makes Patrick crash like a bank. "I just don't want him to stay in the freezer", this seemingly innocuous request is an irresistible attachment to his relatives.

Small bursts without any warning, the sting is extremely deep and real.

A few years ago, Qiuku's beloved grandmother passed away. In the whole year after that, Qiuku never felt sad, as if this incident had never happened, and suddenly one day, without any warning, the pain that I never thought of came. , Qiuku hid in the toilet and cried. After 30 minutes, I wiped away my tears, walked out, and hung out with my roommate as if nothing had happened.

The same goes for Lee and Patrick. When I wake up, it's business as usual.

The sadness of the past seems to have calmed down in the passing time.

Joe's will, making him Patek Jr.'s guardian, evokes long-buried memories. Accompanied by the soothing, tranquil soft version of Albinoni's G minor, the sealed past events unfold like a river, without any dialogue or tears, only the clearer picture that you want to forget.

Li had nowhere to hide, and he was more focused on the handling of the funeral. Faced with Joe's sudden passing, both Lee and Patrick remain silent, one busy with bands and dating, the other numb and efficient at funerals. Both exile themselves in the infinite trivialities of life.

Li Zai shuttled his nephew through the complicated love battles. For his nephew to break down as soon as possible, he did not want to socialize and sat quietly in front of the kind hostess. All the embarrassment of the world was frozen in this room. Repaired the ship that carried the family's memories...

Going out to sea with his nephew, he had the only smile on his face that was the only time in the film.

It is these trivial things in life that let the light of life shine into Li's life again.

The two who supported each other because of their grief became each other's redemption, one became a father again, and the other became a son again. The never-ending grief returns to calm.

But his ex-wife Randi's cry and apology completely defeated Li again. He didn't even utter a complete sentence and left in a hurry. Memories come ruthlessly, sadness becomes a nightmare, and life here becomes endless torture.

In the sadness that defies time, the sunshine of life will be squeezed into it

Not all wounds in the world can heal, and time cannot heal all grief. Some people choose to end their lives, but those with equal or worse experiences still choose to live.

"I can't beat it. (I can't bear it)" is Li's most helpless confession. The two also embraced each other for the first time. In one sentence, they revealed the most vulnerable place in their hearts, which was the wound that could not be healed at any time.

Manchester by the sea is quiet and beautiful, but Lee can no longer live here. Moving to Charles City was not an escape for him, and he had nowhere to hide in the face of grief that defied time. Although he couldn't bear it, his heart began to contain the light of life.

Manchester's spring germinates in the middle of winter, just like our life, the pain and the sweetness of the seasons alternate endlessly. Joe is finally buried, and the grief that surfaced melts in the spring water. Li Huan, who disdains buying furniture, plans to buy a sofa in anticipation of the occasional visit of his nephew.

Like a newborn in Randy's arms, Lee could finally open his eyes in the utter darkness and catch a glimpse of light and warmth.

Life is not fair to everyone, and some people survive to win. A life that cannot be restarted, whether it is regret or pain, it is your right to forget the past and ignore the pain, but don't close the eyes that can see the sun.

Manchester's winter is as low as minus 5 degrees. Although the surface is calm and not too cold, the sea breeze is still biting.

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Even with the arrival of spring, everything is still so quiet.

A quiet town, experiencing the reincarnation of the four seasons. May your heart live forever in the four seasons.

To you all the pain and beauty in my life

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Extended Reading

Manchester by the Sea quotes

  • Lee Chandler: I can't be his guardian.

  • Dr. Bethany: But it's not a good disease.

    [pause]

    Joe Chandler: What is a good disease?