The son takes drugs and does not do a proper job, and the father disciplines him harshly, even in the eyes of outsiders, it is abuse, so in heart with each other is full of resentment towards each other. As
a result, there is no communication, no empathy, so that the son is getting deeper and deeper, and the father is more strict, until the conflict gradually escalates and the resentment deepens. Beating and scolding, even committing suicide,
drug addiction and degeneration are almost giving up this life. In his eyes, his father could only use extreme means of control, and he was exhausted for a long time until he gave up and let himself go.
The son's selective memory is bewitched with an overwhelming hatred and resentment toward his father and never thinks about what happened to him. Confused and motivated, he went to find the truth and gradually touched the memory at the bottom of his heart
. Fragments of memory appeared from time to time, and the appearance of his father started with a quarrel. As the son researched another case, he seemed to understand the heart of being a father. In order to protect the child
, he may do extreme things, even if he himself is overly sensitive to judge dangerous things, which leads to tragedy. The son's girlfriend is also a single parent, and also grew
up in a problematic family environment , and also has unforgettable memories. But she chose to forget it completely, to live with another self and not let the past affect her, but her boyfriend's exploration of her made her uneasy.
She quit because her boyfriend would often go back to the way he used to be a jerk.
But at the end, it was the son's epiphany that improved his relationship with his father's friends and faced life with a new mentality.
People are very complicated. They say that they do not love with resentment, but they have the greatest love. Everyone wants others to understand themselves and others to become what they think they are. People sometimes
pay for the indulgence and selfishness of their youthful indulgences. Love and hate are intertwined, and they forget the essence of life and struggle with it every day. This may be
the trouble caused by God's gift of wisdom and emotion .
In fact, it is very simple. Just think in a different position, take a step back, and look at the problem from a developmental perspective. Don't try to bind others, but as a father, when the child's character values are not established
Be more focused on guiding. Instead of venting their pressure and unhappiness on children, especially before they are independent. There should be more encouragement, more supervision and guidance.
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