This film expresses the grievances in the family incisively and vividly. Every quarrel can make people feel emotionally substituted, with deep impatience mixed with anxiety and anger. Every time it seems to be arguing over a trivial matter, but the anger is aimed at the relationship between the two people who has been struggling for a long time and is struggling to maintain. We are family, but we have a lot of grudges! Very emotionally speaking, I think the source of all this resentment lies in the hostess. She complained about her husband's financial failure, her father-in-law's childishness, her eldest son's concealment from her, and her younger son's difficulty in discipline. She is so full of resentment because she feels that her efforts and rewards are not proportional. Based on her own efforts, she has a strong desire to control the men in this family, and because of this control, everyone is trying to make themselves meet her standards. I really, really, hate women like that. Darkly speaking, I was very happy when the truth of "the son is gay" and "the husband cheated on her" was put in front of her at the same time, and she almost broke down. Women, stop whitewashing Taiping! Do you feel like you are a failure? However, the biggest failure of the Mistress of the Karp family is not the breakup of a happy family in the traditional sense, but that she is deeply trapped in the world. The world constrains her to be a hard-working housewife, while promising her a decent life, a loving husband, and promising children. What makes her unbalanced is that she tries so hard to be a good wife, to be a good character, to run the house diligently, and not to get everything she thinks she should have. Her grievances built up in her daily life, until finally everyone in the family was deeply panicked. Her identity is so contradictory that she is both the servant of the whole family and the object of the master's favor. The dialogue between her and the whole family is either low to the dust, or she will raise her head and expand her chest, and there has never been an equal opportunity to communicate. In such a situation, imbalance is an inevitable outcome. A woman is a stoic animal, she has endured long-term torture, and her spirit will not easily collapse. So after her husband died, she still lived silently and pretending to be nothing. But no matter before or after, she never found a thing called "me". The reason why I feel so deeply is because my mother is such a woman. Her most common words are, "As long as you are all well, Mom, I am willing to work hard." When I heard it when I was a child, I was moved, guilty and reluctant. I don't know when I heard this sentence again. Feeling sad and powerless. I really want to tell my mother that as women, when can we stop being accessories. This kind of life can only be a burden to others while sacrificing oneself, and the whole family cannot breathe freely and grow arbitrarily. But she doesn't understand...
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