Growth lies in constant reflection

Richmond 2022-09-02 21:02:57

The accumulation of individual attitudes and views about life experiences shapes the self-character, and then unconsciously forms attitudes about the past, present, and upcoming events. Everyone's views on things have their own subjective intentions. How much influence a person's character has on personal life, if he does not reflect on himself, he may never realize that some things may have another side. Conflicts and misunderstandings between the two are actually the collision of subjective intentions about some common experiences of individuals. Standing on their own character standpoints, they must all be right. If they insist on earning money, their heads will be broken.
No one can tell how much and how an individual's growth experience and environment affect the shaping of personality. Life may be an indefinite integral with parameters. From the day I was born, I began to shape myself. One day I stopped and looked back and found that those people and events in the past had unconsciously filled most of the screen on the xy axis. But people are always subjective and able to adjust themselves, but what they need is to stop and look back at their own pace.
The protagonist teenager is rebellious and depraved, and his father's education method may lack some patience. When the helpless and confused teenager used his father as his greatest support, he was violently punished by his father, and the shadow area in his heart can be imagined. The deepest memory in the soul must be the person and thing that hurts the most. When time dilutes the details, and even you forget the ins and outs of the whole thing, the moment that hurts you the most will always haunt you. When the memory begins to loosen and blur, the character becomes the director's cut of the memory, re-editing and tampering with the memory around the self-view of life, and even finding excuses for the mistakes that have been made and seeking spiritual comfort.
I think people are always selfish and selfish, and there are only a few who can face their own mistakes, but in the process of interpersonal communication and collision, it is necessary to look at the problem from the perspective of the other party, whether it is parents, friends or strangers. Only by mutual understanding and comfort can we gain trust, friendship, love, and affection.
Therefore, Confucius said to examine our body three times a day. But when there is a conflict with our loved ones, don't always complain sadly, try to understand the problem from his point of view, maybe you can calm down more quickly and understand each other.

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    Stephen Elliott: You remember when you taught me to drive? I was 14. You let me drive out to Warren park in a '69 mustang. I loved that car. You used to take me out, let me drive. I remember feelin' so happy and free, full of hope and potential.

    Neil Elliott: I don't know why you always told people I taught you to drive in the mustang. It was a red 1968 Oldsmobile Delmont convertible, in Warren park in the parkin' lot. You were belligerent, and you were a terrible driver. So we only did it once.

    Stephen Elliott: Wanna go for a drive? I don't wanna see you for an hour.

    Neil Elliott: Nah, we'd just argue.

    Stephen Elliott: Fine. Then we'll just go. We'll agree not to talk. It doesn't matter. None of it matters.

    Neil Elliott: All right. You gotta help me up here. Help your old dad get up...