The conclusion that the two people do not aim to be together comes from the following details. If you are interested, you can study it further. I will talk about my observations first.
First, as to whether the professor is divorced, I think he is not divorced. He may be in the separation stage. First of all, if he is divorced, he will definitely not open two rooms like this, and say: I am sorry we can't be together as much The phrase as we d like means, sorry, we can't be together as we want, why can't, because there is no divorce. . The only explanation is this. In the West, as long as they are divorced, men and women will not be criticized when they are together, let alone men and women. Secondly, in the anniversary CD that the professor gave to the girl, the professor said this: even the distance kept us fart apart, and it will always be, he thought their long-distance relationship would last, and didn't say anything about the future plan or arrangement together, and to my surprise, the girl nodded in agreement. It means that she accepts the professor's words very much, and thinks there is nothing wrong with it. This detail is very crucial, and it more or less expresses the attitude of the heroine. She doesn't mind such a relationship at all. In the later period, the heroine went to Edinburgh to find a doctor to get back the information. The doctor criticized the professor's actions, believing that he did not respect his wife, children, and even girls. First of all, the professor does have a wife, and he will still treat the professor. care about what you do. The last point, the heroine met with the professor's daughter, the daughter said: The professor didn't abandon his family because his son was too young, and the heroine replied like this: I never forced him to tear his life apart together.
Seeing this, I gradually describe the relationship between Amy and the professor: they are both teachers and friends, and they appreciate each other. As an insecure girl, it is basically against the axiom that Amy is not interested in an old man like the professor. As an old man, an old man who has been under pressure from many aspects of his life, occupation and family, when he encounters such an independent, stubborn and brave little fresh meat, he does not want to explore it, which is also against the axiom, so they are together, and there are still six years for so long. .
Second, analyze why it is so inseparable after being together for six years. I understand it as pure love. Pure love, that is, love that does not aim at union and possession, is an existence that is completely contrary to the marriage relationship in human society. The attributes of a marriage relationship are actually social relationships and contractual relationships. Both men and women not only share property, but also Temporarily losing the legitimate right to pursue or understand other people of the opposite sex, marriage, or the establishment of a serious partnership, is essentially a limitation, possession, and restraint. With the beginning of this constraint, in fact, love has lost its purity. Amy never forced the old man to change his living conditions, never forced him to divorce, what a great and generous gift to the old man. Because of this kind of requirement, the old man's secular life cannot be escaped, especially with a son who can't be abandoned no matter what, he hopes too much to have the best of both worlds, even though the moral is really low. So he was so grateful and forgiving of everything about Amy, that he did everything enviable to her. For Amy's gift to him, what he did was just a reasonable return.
So, is this feeling mainstream? Of course not, it is extremely non-mainstream, because human beings are so fragile and so lazy, most of our confidence in the other half is more or less based on contracts and contracts. We have common strength and common property to complete our social role, in exchange for the recognition of the surrounding people and the environment, to realize self-worth, and to gain a sense of security, and we hope that this alliance will be long-term, so we are lazy to continue self-exploration, but We are accustomed to shifting the pressure or attention that we originally had to bear on ourselves to our other half. Then, no matter how much we love each other when we first got married, the quality of the relationship will be reduced in the end, because there are always some inconsistencies in the contractual relationship. A fair share will hurt the id. Therefore, if there is a love, it is not aimed at being together, nor is it premised on forcing the other party to change or sacrifice. At this time, everyone is brave and independent, gathering like fire, scattered like stars, such a beautiful experience, who is willing to give up? So six years have passed so sweetly, without any oppression, all the way joyfully and gratefully, and finally by all kinds of daughters, classmates, passers-by, and a large number of people are envious, jealous, and hated. . Think about it too, just envy Amy for the unparalleled love, how many people can achieve her brave gesture of big womanism? The director has strengthened her courageous physique to go up the mountain and down the sea of fire. In fact, she is really brave and strong. She is fortunate to meet this love, and she can also afford it and let it go.
In the end, Professor Tucao passed the castle to her. I don't like this ending. I feel that I can't echo the front and back... Phew, Uncle Tie is so handsome. . After so many years, not only has my hair not grown, but my hair is so beautiful, beautiful!
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