Walk back to the room in memory

Letha 2022-03-24 09:01:15

When I was a child, there were many roses in front of the door.

Grandma must be like the grandmother of the little boy in the film, gently teaching me to brush my teeth, soak me in a tub, play with toys with me, and show the world to me who is curious.

The childhood room is the earliest and most comfortable comfort zone in life.

When I went to the nursery, I wore a handkerchief with the name embroidered on my chest. Before the pick-up time arrived, I looked at the door and waited for my family to pick him up.

Then he left grandma's house and went to kindergarten in another city. I couldn't finish my lunch, so I fell under my feet secretly. I was criticized by the teacher. When the teacher asked who it was, the little girl blushed, lowered her head and said nothing, not knowing how the matter was finally resolved.

-I have to get along with people other than grandma, what should I do, or with people from another city.
-What do you want to say? Well, I really don’t want to take a nap, why do everyone have to sleep peacefully together after a meal?
-Did they learn the same things as me? Will they be accepted?

This kind of panic has never disappeared, but with the increase in years of experience, it gradually becomes more adaptable, or in other words, people are forced to adapt. The child’s perspective of the little boy in the movie unintentionally helped to dig out the fragments that had been buried in the memory landfill for a long time.

I am satisfied with the food I have never tried, and sighed because I saw the fresh scene. This is a "unforgettable" day. Listening to the conversation between parents and other adults seems to understand and understand, seeing the stranger look at it straightly. Facial and physical characteristics, parents are scared and nervous when they quarrel, and when they find a new corner, they are excited to use it as a "secret base"...

Children can see details that adults can’t see, and they still retain many thresholds. Watching movies and not doing extreme sports will not feel bored, curious eyes make the little world in front of you infinitely exciting.

Then come back to that room, the place where people feel relaxed and happy the first time.

There is someone to take care of everything and someone to accompany you. In any case, you will not be bored or left out. You don't need to listen to additional conversations to get in touch with complicated things. The guardian and himself will decide what they want to do.

It sounds beautiful.

Isn't it the same for adults sometimes? If you can, just get along with close people, in a comfortable conversation environment, and don't bother to meet new friends. You can stay at home without going out, so you don't have to change your posture and face others with brilliance. It's best to indulge in your own world. There is no comparison and no injustice. Our heroine does not have to look sad at the photo with her friends seven years ago, and she will not lose control of her emotions after accepting a brutal media interview.

The outside world is a more terrifying existence than a closed environment.

If the heart is a glass house, in fact, I really hope that it will never be broken and rebuilt. The little boy in the movie said that there are so many places in the world, but not so much time, because time has to be spread thinly in different places like butter. So everyone said: "Hurry up, let us act, move faster, and finish things now." So what are you greedy for? You may only find one or two things that really interest you, such as toys and TV in the room, like laughing, screaming and crying at will in a safe state. But the paradox is how do you know what you want and discover new preferences without going out to try?

The outside world has germs, noise and indifference, but there are also flowers, grasses and sunshine.

So after all, the door of the room still has to be opened, just like everyone who doesn't want to grow up must conform to the rules of society, become able to talk and laugh, socialize, find dreams, and set up a wish list.

But the room in my memory is a place I never want to be erased, and I want to take good care of it.




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Room quotes

  • Old Nick: What's that smell?

    Ma: Sorry, I burned some cheese. Here. I just wasn't thinking.

    Old Nick: Well, thinking is not your strong suit.

  • Ma: [about the mouse] He's on the other side of this wall.

    Jack: What other side?

    Ma: Jack, there's two sides to everything.

    Jack: Not on an octagon.

    Ma: Yeah, but...

    Jack: [Interrupts] An octagon has eight sides

    Ma: But a wall, okay, a wall's like this, see? And we're on the inside and mouse is on the outside.

    Jack: In outer space?

    Ma: No, in the world. It's much closer than outer space.

    Jack: I can't see the outside-side.

    Ma: Listen, I know that I told you something else before, but you were much younger. I didn't think that you could understand, but now you're so old, you're so smart. I know that you can get this. Where do you think that old Nick gets our food?

    Jack: From TV by magic!