A true love and a false love

Kiana 2022-12-22 13:09:15

This is a movie that pissed me off.
One is to keep saying to my wife that the only thing I love is your Aina, but what I have been pursuing is only what I want. When the person who said "my life, my wife" cried and showed that I couldn't take it anymore and let Aina appear for a while, what he thought was no, I can't change my will, I want Be what I want, I can't be what you want. At this time, someone might jump out and say, "He did the right thing. Don't make unrealistic concessions. If you can't go back, you must tell her heartlessly." Officer, I dare to ask a person who thinks about the overall situation, why when the last operation is done and it is a foregone conclusion, he clearly knows how much harm it will bring to the person who loves him to have the second operation to see him. She was still required to be present. Gerda has already said that I don't want to see you hurt yourself, but you still have to cut a knife in her heart just because you want someone to accompany me after my surgery? This "man" didn't have a strong sexual desire when he was still a man, but after wearing women's clothes, he was no longer able to do it? Didn't he say that he has lived with women since he was careful, so why hasn't there been no cloud and rain since he was a child? Your example of consciousness-led behavior is amazing. To sum up this person in one sentence - simply don't be too selfish.
The other is Gerda, who expresses her love with her husband who silently stands behind her back. From the very beginning, my husband's art exhibition was brilliant, but I was also a painter, but I was not favored by others. Then I found that my husband was different, but he did not show any rejection or unacceptance like ordinary people. Even if it was unbearable in his heart, he said that I would support you, and I realized your abnormality. When she cried and begged Aina to come back but was sad, she could have indulged her desires. At this time, the inner line should be "Since you don't want me anymore, then I can also don't want you." This is the correct solution, and then choose another life. But he avoided when a handsome, rich man kissed him, she said "he is still my husband". When I finally saw my husband with another man and was going to undergo further gender reassignment surgery, I knew that my heart would be cut by a knife, but I still couldn't bear my husband to do the surgery alone, for fear that he would not be strong enough to endure it and still appear in another place in the end. A city husband's bedside. How much love is needed to have such a heart.
At the end of the movie lily said to Gerda: "how have i deserve such love." I would say selfish people don't deserve it

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  • Dr. Hexler: Tell me about Lili... Where did she come from?

    Einar Wegener: Inside of me.

  • Gerda Wegener: It's hard for a man to be looked at by a woman. Women are used to it, of course, but for a man to submit to a woman's gaze - it's unsettling. Although I believe there's some pleasure to be had from it, once you yield.