"With You" - Helping you is a favor, not helping you is my duty

Kyle 2022-03-23 09:03:18

I originally wanted to use the introduction phrase "morality is used to restrain oneself, but it is used to evaluate other people's behavior, which itself is a kind of immorality" to express the theme I want to talk about today - moral kidnapping. After thinking about it, I use this self-standard that I think is very correct to judge others as immoral. Isn’t that because I am immoral first? Logic is really useful. . .
This film is a film made by Chen Kaige in 2002. The online commentary said that this is a transformation of Chen Kaige, from the eternal sing of "Farewell My Concubine" to the legend of "Jing Ke Thorn Qin King" to "With You" A true portrayal and an expression of human nature in the real life of "Together". I don't know much about the director's film, but this film does a good job of throwing out a difficult multiple-choice question: on the road of life, faced with the dilemma of career and love, who will you choose to be with? Together?
The film tells the story of a violin genius and his adoptive father who went to Beijing to find a famous teacher, a genius to study, and his adoptive father's hard-earned daily life; until he met Chen Kaige, a famous teacher who successfully taught a world-class violinist, because he needed to live and study at the teacher's home for a long time. , The relationship between the two fathers and sons began to grow estranged. The adoptive father knew that his responsibilities were about to be completed and he wanted to go back to his hometown.
Well, you already know the result, that is, the violin genius chose family affection on this multiple-choice question. So what am I going to say? What I want to say is the character in this movie that "handles moral kidnapping very well".
That is all the personal details of the genius adoptive father Liu Cheng (played by Liu Peiqi). Judging from his life experience, he is a typical rural farmer in the New China period, and a migrant worker who is full of curiosity and preparedness for the outside world. He should have been working hard in the countryside, but he went to Beijing to find a famous teacher to train his son. ; Judging from his character, he is honest and honest, with the petty citizen mentality that ordinary people have; Judging from his treatment of his son, the most important thing is the cultivation of a son who is a violin genius. The hard work is not afraid. Having said so much, I don't know if you have noticed. What I'm talking about is that he has a [weak factor] that can realize "moral kidnapping", which has completely constituted a requirement for a violin genius to abandon the prosperous life in Beijing and return to "Dad" Enjoy the old age together. Liu Cheng, who had never read a book, did not ask the young talent to do this. Instead, he silently bought the earliest ticket to return to his hometown so as not to disturb his game. Because he believes that this is the little genius's own choice no matter what. Although he is a relative who raised him, he has no right to ask him to change himself for others, nor to impose his own will on the little genius. , this is what I think is a "good deal with moral kidnapping".
On the contrary, "The Most Beautiful Country Doctor" that I watched at the same time was a complete moral kidnapping film. Even if I saw the heroine in the back, even if I didn't want to, but because of the mother's request, I had to aggrieve Caicai and live in the village as a small child. Country doctor, you will feel that the choice in love and career, even if you are willing to do it later, is bound by your fear of others watching you go beyond the so-called "public good" (the bottom line of social morality).

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He ni zai yi qi quotes

  • Liu Xiaochun: [in Mandarin] Dad, my back itches.

    Liu Cheng: [in Mandarin] Here.