I'm just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her.
When this modern version of the Roman Holiday princess in a plain blue dress stood in front of someone who refused to love her again, she persisted shivering When I said this, I was so envious of her.
And the only thing I have dared to do so far is to write such a painless and ignorant letter, which is the bravest thing my courage can support me to do.
It took the recipient a week to read the 1500-word letter, and then WeChat replied that there was a paper due recently, and I couldn't reply to something longer, sorry. He also said, come on, keep up the good work.
Thank him, that's all he could say, and that's all I could say.
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Wait, is that really true?
Anna's beauty in the movie shines because of her pursuit of love, but I don't dare to say a word, even if it's "I can't forget you", he doesn't want to say a word, even if it's "everything is in the past".
Is this the hidden and mysterious beauty of the East? Or are we just used to being timid?
The more I think about things, the more I see no rhyme or reason in life.
The elder sister of the male protagonist in a wheelchair said such a sentence, and everyone present started to nod. Yeah,
bad luck happens nine times out of 10 in life, yeah, some people are lucky and some... but when we refuse to try, when we get too used to putting everything away and saying only what is expected to be accepted, it makes Is the world a better place? Will it change the unsatisfactory nine out of ten? I do not think so.
In fact, many times, it is possible to confess one's heart. Don't worry about hurting anyone. More cover up brings suspicion, and suspicion brings harm. It was no big deal, "today's newspapers will be thrown into the trash tomorrow".
If you don't love it, say you don't love it. It's not that you don't love me, but it's because you still love me and can't bear it, why do you want to leave me and why don't you ignore me.
As for love, I hope that one day, I can meet that person and say without doubt, I'm just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her. After all, the probability of falling in love is too high Small, and life is too short, the world is too big.
3 At
the moment when I heard this line and burst into tears, all I could think about was, what exactly is love?
Why this weird thing has so much energy makes me desperately unrealistic.
Ex commented on me and said, if you decide to break up, eight horses can't be pulled back. Funny, it's like you passed me with eight horses.
The good friend said that your love is based on worship, and then shook his head and looked at me. Interesting, seems to make sense.
So I ran to find one of my favorite senior sisters. She seemed to be living a contented and joyful married life, with a deep academic focus and a calm demeanor when she spoke.
"At what point do you feel like 'Well I can get married,'" I asked her.
Senior Sister pondered, "It also took me three years to realize that I can marry this person who does not meet my several major mate selection criteria."
"This is a process that needs to be decoded. If you ask that person to respect your ideas Your preferences, then in the same way, you have to respect his. If you ask him to like the music you listen to, you have to accept that he is addicted to electronic products or two-dimensional elements... If you can't, don't force it," the senior sister said.
In Chinese-style relationships and marriages, it seems difficult to keep space for each other. Even if you do, you will often end up blaming the other person for not being caring enough. It is even more impossible to require the other party to be in sync with each other in terms of three views and even in every aspect of everything. If you really meet such a person, life may become predictable in an instant, and all unexpected joys will be lost.
At this point, I finally know that the qualities I want are not impossible or non-existent, but they are mutually exclusive, so that it is impossible to coexist in one person. Also, no one should or is responsible for so many expectations that you project.
I have to admit that the love I've been looking forward to is too idealistic, at best "surreal but nice".
What you need to do, perhaps, is to discover the most indispensable requirement for your partner in the process of continuous trial and error. For Anna, maybe the male protagonist just satisfies her most needed space and sense of security. As for whether he can become a decent enough red carpet male companion, whether his jokes will be too low, it seems not so important.
From this perspective, "Notting Hill" is actually not that fairy tale.
Sister said, one day you will find that you have nothing to say... but you will know that it is the spiritual backing that will exist silently no matter what you encounter.
Did I say yes? We looked at each other and blinked.
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