Time goes by, live in the present

Kenyon 2022-03-19 09:01:03

In the past year, this masterpiece that has been carefully crafted and polished for 12 years has won nominations and awards of various sizes at major film festivals. If you have a little understanding of the background of the film, It is not difficult to understand its unique charm: the director spent 12 years, revolving around a boy's life journey from 6 to 18 years old, showing the traces of the passage of time. In other words, the actors in the film are witnesses to the flow of time. The teenagers grew up from Zhengtai to college students, the girls appeared slim, and their parents gradually looked old-these are all real things, not relying on the blindness of replacing actors or makeup skills. This film and its participants have maintained a good continuity for 12 years. Such painstaking and loneliness, even in any other field, can be called extraordinary.
"Boyhood" shows the ordinary life of ordinary people. It is not only a youth film, game consoles, cigarettes, beer, transcripts, first love, these elements in the growth of adolescents are almost exhaustive; at the same time, it is also a family The film is about all the trivial things about married life, about the midlife crisis, about the breakup and reorganization of a family; it is also a documentary, which describes historical events such as 9/11, the Iraq War, the change of the US president, and there is no shortage of Harry. ·Social phenomena such as the Porter boom, the birth and popularization of Facebook and iPhone...they have formed the collective memories of generations of Americans through the faithful record of images.
Life is like the luminous road in the film, although it is always moving forward, but there are always twists and turns. Time has changed the appearance of the two generations, and it has also given them new understandings and feelings about life and life. Mason and Samantha passed through their rebellious adolescence and became college students; their mother had experienced several failed marriages and had to accept the reality that they were getting old and their children were about to leave their side; father also formed a new family and began to learn To become a more competent father. This family bears everything that an ordinary middle-class family in American society has to endure, including the difficulties caused by the economic depression, all kinds of compromises made for actual needs, and goodbye to the good old days. Some people say that "time" is the real protagonist of the film, and the flow of time is a deeper theme of "Boyhood". Related to this, the selection of the OST of the film is also painstaking. At different stages of the character's life, the director has selected the more representative popular songs of that era as the soundtrack, so that the audience can easily find resonance in the film. Another noteworthy detail is that the dialogue between Mason and the girl at the end of the film is quite interesting: "Everyone keeps saying'Seize the time', I'm thinking, on the contrary, time controls us." "Yes, time is Constant, like... it has always been now." It's the same in the play and outside the play. In 12 years, whether you accept it or not, everyone has opened a new chapter in their life. This story, both true and false, could have continued, but the director chose to freeze the scene at a dusk when a teenager was 18 years old-the best time in life. To some extent, "Boyhood" is not just a noun here, but has become a symbol of a certain feeling.
Many people are concerned about the passage of time. We always seem to be dissatisfied, absorbing the things we lost, and turning a blind eye to what we have now. There are too many people and things that cannot be kept in life. Unlike movies, real life is an impromptu performance. Most people walk on an ordinary road with all kinds of scenery along the way. If you get lost in it, you will easily lose yourself. Maybe we can't grasp the time, but we can hold on to that insignificant moment. Living in the moment is a collection of the best times in life.

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Boyhood quotes

  • Samantha: [after leaving Bill's family for good] Why couldn't we take Randy and Mindy with us?

    Mom: Because sweetie, I'm not their legal guardian, that would be kidnapping; it's against the law.

    Samantha: Couldn't you talk to their mom?

    Mom: I tried their mom, but I can't reach her.

    Samantha: Well, what's going to happen to them?

    Mom: [starts crying] I don't know...

    Samantha: Why are you crying?

    Mom: Because I don't have all the answers.

  • Mom: [Mason Jr. and Samantha start fighting in the backseat] Hey! What's going on back there? Stop it! Put a barrier up! Come on, make a barrier with your pillow!

    Mom: Okay, we're going to play a game: Whoever can stay quiet the longest wins. And, go!

    [Samantha and Mason Jr. start tickling each other, instead]