University often hears a so-called campus man boast that the most important feeling of a person is being needed, this feeling of being needed will motivate him to be willing to give, for a period of time, people People treat it as a classic, including me. But it wasn't until the day after graduation that I realized that being recognized is more important than being needed.
In fact, as far as this low-budget comedy "Eavesdropping on Women's Hearts" is concerned, if it weren't for Mel Gibson's personal charm and fairly smooth narrative skills, it really wouldn't be a good film. I learned from business-related classmates (the list of recommended movies from Harvard on the Internet), I think it would be more direct to watch the first season of "Falling Up", because the focus of the film is not here, nike's advertising copy: no games, just sports. Might as well be regarded as the best commentary on describing the psychology of women.
At the beginning of the film, it is introduced that Nick grew up among women, so from childhood to adulthood, Nick always thought that he was deeply loved by women, knew women well, and thought he was a man among men. Temperament, as his boss and colleagues commented: Nick is only good at getting women to bed, not reading women's hearts.
Until an accident, Nick had the ability to hear the inner thoughts of women, and after being enlightened by a psychiatrist, Nick realized that this was actually a wealth, an unparalleled ability, and he decided to use this ability to do something for himself, especially It was I who encountered a crisis of confidence in the company, and the coveted creative president was snatched by the airborne Darcy. At this moment, what does it mean to have this ability, especially when the entire market is biased towards female consumption. Needless to say, Nick relied on this ability to change his image as a female jerk in the company in the past, and overheard Darcy's idea, creating a great fortune for the company, but as he listened more and more, Nick's Anxiety and self-confidence also increased, and he began to really know how to care and respect women, not just for personal gain. So even in the mysterious Chinatown, after another accident, Nick's loss of this unparalleled ability is irrelevant to his family and love at the end of the film.
Why do you want to be recognized>needed as the title? From the overall point of view of the film, I think the most important thing to understand a woman's heart is to know how to listen, know how to appreciate, and know how to recognize. Going a little further, maybe this also applies to human-to-human interactions. It is often said that a woman has a needle in the bottom of the sea, but maybe we are often short of a word, a nod, a smile, and a little patience to uproot the needle. Just like Nick in the play, maintain respect and care for women, you There will be unexpected gains.
It is different from the original intention of the film director to explore the truth and hypocrisy of human nature, because in my opinion, life is wonderful because of a few lies.
What a girl wants
What a girl needs
Whatever makes me happy and sets you free
And I'm thanking you for knowin' exactly
What a girl wants
What a girl needs
Whatever keeps me in your arms
And I'm thanking you for giving it to me
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