This reminds me of two writers: San Mao and Xi Murong. Sanmao and Xi Murong, both of whom have shown literary talent since childhood, maybe because of this, they also have a fatal weakness: extremely poor mathematics. Sanmao's performance in a math test was very unsatisfactory, and her previous performance in the math class. The math teacher in that class was very angry and threw Sanmao out of the door and painted her glasses black. , let him stand outside the corridor, many students saw Sanmao after class, pointed and whispered to him. After Sanmao came home, he locked himself in the room and couldn't come out. Later, he was very afraid of school and couldn't go to school normally. Although Sanmao has written many classic works and helped many people through his own words, he has always had very serious psychological emotions. It must have had a very important impact. As for Xi Murong, before the middle school exam, the math teacher wrote a few questions on the blackboard during class one day, and the students wrote the answers seriously. Xi Murong's deskmate gave the correct answers to the Xi Murong, Xi Murong went home from school and memorized the answers. In the later math test, Xi Murong passed the test with ease. Xi Murong's appearance is not very beautiful, but what makes people unforgettable is that she gives a warm and quiet feeling. The math teacher's intentional intentions cannot be said to have completely changed Xi Murong's fate or that she is warm and quiet. Fortunately for Xi Murong than Sanmao, she met a teacher who was tolerant of her. This is the teacher's influence on the student. In many cases, a teacher's unintentional actions or words and deeds can change a student's character or cognition. When students are disobedient and mischievous, have you thought about these internal reasons as a teacher? As a teacher who has just started working, I know that it is very difficult for a teacher to treat every student in the class like this. Often times, it's really heartless. The teacher is only one of his identities, and he has other identities. For example: parents, children, he has his own family and needs to deal with various things. Even doing that is difficult. However, we can do not arbitrarily draw conclusions to students, give them one more chance, and give them more patience and understanding. Especially in today's diverse society, reading is not the only way out, reading is just a good choice, it can provide more ways out.
And this movie is not only worth thinking about by teachers, but also parents. As the saying goes: Parents are the first teachers of a child. A child grows up beside his parents since childhood. His cognition and habits are derived from his parents' words and deeds. Teachers have to manage many students, and teachers are outsiders after all. Accompanying students for a period of time, and parents are not the same. If the child's everything depends on the school and teachers, then the parents are remiss.
I happened to be helping a friend of my dad sell fireworks today. It's Lantern Festival, let's set off fireworks. Many children are eager to set off fireworks with their own hands. If they just watch other children set off, but they don't, they will inevitably be lost. This is not vanity, but a little wish. How much and how expensive and cheap to buy fireworks is largely related to the financial situation of the parents, there is no doubt that. But some parents can tell at a glance that their family conditions are not good. Although they can't buy some beautiful and expensive fireworks for their children, they can buy some cheap ones for their children, so that the children are very happy. And some parents are not willing to buy for their children even if they are rich. If the child wants it, he will say there is nothing to play and waste money. After hearing these words, the child will be very disappointed and envious of others. little child. He didn't think about it from the child's point of view, which is the child's wish. In the process of buying fireworks, each parent's practice is even more different, and this difference has nothing to do with the family's economic situation. Father A (a farmer) will carefully ask the child what he wants. The child says he wants one and the other. He finds that two of them are actually the same. Seeing this kind of father-son dialogue really makes people feel very warm, there is negotiation and consideration, and parents do not make decisions for their children. Mother B (a wealthy family), the child likes several fireworks, she said this is not good, that is good, don't want this, the child has to replace it. Dad C bought some fireworks alone, and the child stood behind. Seeing various scenarios, can not help but have a variety of thoughts.
Why are there so many troubled teenagers now, whether they are parents or teachers, the only thing they can give their children and students is understanding and patience. The university is a normal college. One of my teachers once said this in class: Everyone here may become a teacher in a few years. I have no other requirements for you, the only requirement is not to Easily stifle a student's creativity and enthusiasm.
Every child is a star on the earth, and the stars shine. The difficulty is whether we adults can read the eyes of the stars.
In the whole film, there is one detail that strikes me: one morning, Isha woke up in her sleep, the sky blue curtains in the room fluttered in the wind, and the outside was full of vitality and greenery, which was really beautiful.
And Isha's brother in the film is also very moved. He is excellent in all aspects, but his younger brother Isha is a well-known poor student in the school. He did not ignore him or look down on him, and he did not feel ashamed. Patiently helping him with his parents, and when Isha asked him to help with leave, he did too.
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