You …complete me

Daron 2022-03-19 09:01:03

You …complete me Shut up, just shut up, you had me at "hallo" "Mr. Sweetheart", this is one of my favorite movies, whether it's the classic lines or the handsome Tom I can't forget it. The most memorable dialogue is the inner confession in tears at the end of the movie. It should be said that it is also my inner desire and definition of love. What I want is the kind of love that has no hurt, and the two sides attract and complement each other. Thankfully, I think I've found you.

On Valentine's Day in 2015, I found this movie again, and I watched it carefully again, but it was completely different from the first time I watched it. The first time I watched it was in my freshman year. At that time, because of my major, I found this movie on the Internet - the ups and downs of a sports agent's life. At that time, I should have been a country bumpkin who was timid, timid, submissive, unspeakable and inferior. I can't remember the mood at that time. I guess I hoped that I could have the eloquence like Jerry, or make a lot of money, and these, I can't do it now.

Rewatching this movie, my inner pessimism is aroused again. Jerry, a high-spirited and hot male protagonist, works as a sports agent in a big company. What he is good at is persuading others. What he says is what others like to hear, but what is in his heart is true, but no one wants to listen. Alone, something he was afraid of but couldn't get rid of. An accidental accident, his heart was touched, he got up at two o'clock in the morning, wrote a 25-page "mission statement", printed it in a book, and distributed it to no one in the company. The next day, he When he arrived at the company, everyone applauded and praised him, saying that someone finally stood up and said what everyone wanted to say, but behind the scenes they were discussing when he would be fired. Including his apprentice telling him the news of his dismissal later, and then competing for clients, including the fact that his secretary who had followed him for many years was unwilling to leave with him, including the fact that he only retained one client in the end, including N many failed negotiations, all of which show that this Society is a battlefield where the winner is the king and the loser is the thief. If you succeed, you will be sought after. If you fail, you will be a loser.

I can't help but think of a good buddy's wedding. When we were alone after drinking, he supported me and said, "Good buddy, this is how society is. If you do well, others are willing to come. He said his wedding There are so many colleagues who come because others have something to ask for from him. On the surface, they are good friends, but in fact, they can't escape the word "interest." I am very envious. He saw through it earlier than me. You who speak your heart to me. I have passed the age of dreaming, and suddenly I feel that I have become mature. Every step I take, I start to consider and tremble. I remember the various decisions I made without my brain before, I don't know if I should regret it. Fortunately, regret has no effect, and it is a new day when I open my eyes in the morning. . I still remember when the last unit resigned, the leader told me: experience is wealth. I didn't understand it at the time, but I gradually understood it later. Maybe they have seen the rules of the game in this world, but they still hope to hold up their hearts and keep them from being tainted.

Show me the money, in the movie Jerry's loud roar in order to retain customers is still echoing in my ears, "money" is a problem, no matter how much rhetoric, without financial support, it is not convincing. Although some people say that "the problems that money can solve are not problems", why do I think that more than 90% of the troubles in life are caused by money, or why do black athletes participate in interviews, the host tells about the hardships they have experienced There were no tears, but when he reported that he had won a contract of more than 10 million yuan, he wept bitterly.

The movie arranges a good ending, which is a relief for the audience. This society is both a battlefield and a game field. No matter what difficulties you encounter, you must face them bravely and come up with solutions. You can't just run away. That's the behavior of the weak. Love, family affection, and friendship are the only things in the world that are tender, but they are all so hard to obtain and are very valuable. I am lucky to have you because of you.

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Jerry Maguire quotes

  • Bob Sugar: [Over the phone with different clients] I'm calling you first because you're most important person in sports and I just want to know one thing: how does that make you feel? I will kill for you, I will maim for you, I will rape and pillage for you. I just want to be the first to tell you that I was talking to Doritos about you and they're interested. I just need to know, are you in or are you out? You'll be so happy you stayed with me because I am the fucking terminator. I don't want to say if it was drug-induced or whatever, but the fact is, he completely fucking freaked out. I don't know if you want a guy like that representing you going to the draft. There, I said my piece. How's your mom?

  • Jerry Maguire: [Over the phone with different clients] Right now you're paying twenty five percent to SMI. I would cut my commission by seven percent, I'm going to make this choice easy for you: what does your heart tell you?