Thanks to this movie for making me think about the meaning of life and how to respect life more.

Vilma 2022-01-25 08:05:27

A movie that sees tears collapse, in the face of life, how little we are, how much perseverance, and how helpless.

"Sometimes, when people make a promise, they don't know what the promise means." It is often the promised party who keeps the promise in mind. The promise for them is a glimmer of hope, a little light, and a spiritual pillar like a life-saving straw. I can only say that the true commitment is a down-to-earth and deep, without words, even a brief glance at each other and a simple smile will make you feel at ease. And verbal words are treated as icing on the cake, they are only meaningful when they are attached to a certain situation. Never entangle with each other in the past, don't doubt the sincerity at that time, and don't deny a person for not renewing the promise. This is unfair. I think people shouldn't be arrogant. First look at yourself, and then think in another way. Maybe the big problems can be relieved.

"In this world, you can't choose not to be harmed, but you have some power to decide who is allowed to harm you." Love is the best way to sublimate the meaning of life. Two people who cherish each other have fulfilled each other, but they did not get it forever. I always think that the ending of a tragedy is more moving, but a perfect relationship will be questioned to varying degrees. People's hearts are always more easily touched by weakness, and they are better at getting a sense of happiness in comparison. Speaking of the movie itself, "forever" is very extravagant for some people, but it is also because of this that they will cherish it more and be more frank. I remember a person who wrote in a film review "If I were to die, I would choose to travel far away, but now, I just want to leave in the arms of the one I love". There is such a person. My luck is that I meet him. With sunshine and warmth, even if only momentary beauty can bloom, it is also the mark I left in this world.

After you leave, I will continue my life, and to commemorate you, I will live more meaningfully. Don't worry about you, don't let you down, don't want you to be sad, with your share, my life has become more weighty. I have thought that if I suddenly leave this world one day, my parents will not recover, just like the corpses of my peers are alive, but now I don’t think it will be so bad. People’s ability to accept pain is stronger than imagined. After the extreme pain is rebirth. Life goes round and round, remembered, and forgotten. People always say that a person has the courage to die, but is he still afraid to live? But I think it’s harder to live than to die. When you stare into the abyss for a long time, the abyss will also look back at you. When a person stays in a certain state for a long time and is unwilling to change, it is difficult to get out on your own. If you are unfortunately caught in a period of pain, beware of the risk of being overwhelmed by the pain. Sometimes it is more practical than obsessiveness. Cherish everything you have, cherish every relationship, and live bravely and optimistically.

Finally, I offer a passage I like from Desperate Housewives, "You start thinking,'What do I want? How can I continue to pursue happiness?' You will start to look around and think in secret. Looking around, always feel like you have found it, but you don't. Desirable. You are dissatisfied because the emptiness in your heart that you have been trying to fill is already full of happiness, but you did not notice it. Always remember how much you need love, and don’t forget all the love you have, you will find, Happiness is here."


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The Fault in Our Stars quotes

  • Augustus Waters: [on the phone] I cannot stop thinking about this Goddamned book.

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: You're welcome.

    Augustus Waters: However, we do need closure, don't you think?

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: That is exactly what I was asking Van Houten for in my letters.

    Augustus Waters: But he never responded.

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: Nope.

    Augustus Waters: [inhales theatrically] "Dear Mr. Waters. I write to thank you for your electronic correspondence. I am grateful to anyone that sets aside time to read my book."

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: [sits up excitedly] Augustus?

    Augustus Waters: Yes?

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: What are you doing?

    Augustus Waters: I may have found Van Houten's assistant. E-mailed her.

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: Augustus!

    Augustus Waters: She may have forwarded that e-mail onto Van Houten. Shall I continue?

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: Oh my God, yeah, go go go!

    Augustus Waters: "I am particularly indebted to you, sir." Hazel Grace, he just called me "sir."

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: Augustus, keep reading! Keep reading!

    Augustus Waters: "... both for your kind words about "An Imperial Affliction" and for taking the time to tell me that the book, and here I quote you directly, 'meant a great deal' to you and your friend Hazel Grace'."

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: [screams excitedly] You did not! No, you did not, you did not, you did not!

    Augustus Waters: Of course I did. "To answer your question: No, I have not written anything else, nor will I. I do not feel like continuing to share my thoughts with readers would benefit either them or me. However, thank you for your generous e-mail. Yours most sincerely, Peter Van Houten." So yeah, that just happened.

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: Oh my God!

    Augustus Waters: I've been trying to tell you, I'm kind of awesome.

  • Hazel Grace Lancaster: Is this where you bring all your romantic conquests?

    Augustus Waters: Yeah, every last one of them. Which is probably why I'm still a virgin.

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: You are not still a virgin! Are you really?

    Augustus Waters: Let me show you something.

    [picks up a stick and draws a circle in the ground]

    Augustus Waters: See this circle? That is the circle of virgins.

    Hazel Grace Lancaster: Uh-huh?

    [Gus draws another barely visible circle within the already drawn circle]

    Augustus Waters: And this... is 18-year-old dudes with one leg.