Family, the eternal safe haven in a person's life, is the armor and weakness we were born with. A person is wandering abroad, without the support of his relatives, then among thousands of thousands, he will be like duckweed, not knowing where he came from and where he will go. Without the spiritual support of the people closest to you, you are likely to easily fall and sink in the face of the difficulties that come one after another in the outside world. This is our armor, it keeps us going, and he tells us we're not alone.
But most parents are unable to estimate what will happen to their children when they leave their hometown. Most parents use their decades of stability to measure their children's future. In fact, most parents want their children to accompany and take care of them, rather than To say that this is a psychological worry or a short-sightedness, it is better to say that this is an animal instinct. When I watched America's Next Top Model yesterday, the girls in the contest often expressed their dreams and the relationship with family members like this: "You don't know how much I want to win this competition, it's almost all of me. I want to prove to My family, my mom (daddy), I was able to get into this business and I wanted to show her that...it means so much to me..." Almost every girl talks about her family Can't stop crying, what a complicated feeling it is. They love each other, they tie each other up, they support each other, and they discourage each other.
Most parents in China want their children to go home to work, get married and have children after graduating from college. For them, going out means suffering, tossing, detours and meaningless. Most of the Chinese fathers in front of them are still thinking about material things. The disparity between the two generations is incomprehensible: Wouldn't it be great if we lived the same life every day? Isn't that what life is supposed to be like? Plain and simple is true. However, what is the different sky? It's not that the money outside is better, and the girls outside are more beautiful; it's the surprise that we go to different places and see different sky with different sunset colors; it's that we meet different people and feel The joy when we come to different ideas and cultures; the ecstasy when we come into contact with different industries and doing different things; it is the different self we see every morning when we wake up. This should be a gift from God.
Life is a terrible thing to sleep through.
Betty is a fantastic girl made up by the screenwriters who not only travels the world on her own, but also convinces her mother to travel with her. She is so lucky.
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