It has nothing to do with love, we are looking for a suitable person, not a suitable model to transform him.

Buster 2022-03-22 09:01:29

Is this movie about love? A person who only cares about his own life will bring others down. This kind of sensitivity, innocence, and willfulness is okay for a child, but not for an adult.
Because we are always responsible to others, whether you like it or not.

People who threaten others with hurting themselves all day long are scary.
If he can't solve the problem, he always wants others to tell him and educate him.
This kind of man can only continue to be domestic violence.

Forced by a helpless marriage, women can see the cowardice of men from the beginning, but women are unwilling to pay for the original mistakes, so they can only make mistakes again and again.

This kind of man, on the basis of having normal, can use it to make memories. But this kind of person who can't be counted on in life can't get along for a long time.

However,

men are very unreliable, but he is right, this is his way of life.

It's the woman who's wrong, the first one is inaccurate to recognize people, the second one is not correcting the mistake, and the third one is not enough determination.

She felt that she was bitter, and men felt that men were bitter, but she herself brought the two of them into such a terrible situation.

Men have the right to pursue, and she has the right to agree and refuse.

This kind of unreliable man can only find a simple woman who is stupid and listens to him all day long and makes love to him. From the beginning to the end, these two people were simply unworthy, and when she realized it, she had no courage to give up.

Can people change? ? There may be, but it's not your responsibility and it shouldn't be an expectation that you should do it.

We are looking for a suitable person, not a suitable model with many possibilities to transform him.

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Blue Valentine quotes

  • Dean: Tell me a joke.

    Cindy: So there's a child molester and a little boy walking into the woods. The child molester and the little boy keep walking further and further. And it's getting darker and darker. And they're going deeper and deeper into the woods. And the child molester... The little boy looks at the child molester and he says, "Gee, mister! I'm getting scared." And the child molester looks down at him and says, "You think you're scared, kid? I gotta walk outta here alone."

    [Dean shakes his head]

    Cindy: You don't think that's funny?

    Dean: No.

    Cindy: I do.

  • Jerry: Cindy doesn't usually bring her boyfriends home for dinner. So, uh, I'm thinking this might be serious.

    Glenda: Don't listen to him.

    Dean: I hope so.

    Jerry: You hope so?

    Dean: Yes, sir. I mean, I'm pretty serious.