Love to incompetence is marriage?

Nathan 2022-03-21 09:01:34

I can't see anything about the precious side of
love in this film. Love at first sight is called love? Or trying to pursue what is called love?
The heroine never gave up. How can it be balanced. You said that she firmly said in front of her boss that I am responsible for the family when I get married? Even the biological father of the daughter does not know who is responsible for herself, her husband, her marriage, and her daughter?
The whole film is the male lead has been working hard. Even if it's not trying to make the family rich. But after all, he is much more sincere than her. The love that only one person works hard will be ruined. What's more, the other half is already tired of this kind of payment.
Actor: Humor. sincere. There are all kinds of talents. There is a caring
heroine: there is an education and ideals,
this is the gap
Actor: content with the status quo and not motivated
heroine: private life is chaotic and irresponsible. In
this film, I never felt that a woman fell in love with a man for a moment. Just because of pregnancy. Forced to be moved by the male protagonist. She is incapable of taking care of the dog. Not so concerned about children. There is no encouragement for the male protagonist. Only dissatisfaction. This is not what marriage gives. It's the woman's own inability to love. So what if you can make money. You have ideals but you have no love. Are you worthy of being loved too? Love has to work. What have you learned from women? The
owner said that the sensitivity of the male protagonist when he went to the future room was the reason for the deterioration of love. The man she met may be the biological father of her child. and beat himself up. Let me ask who can calmly just listen to it as an old friend and pass by. Do you have the face to care about this as a woman? Really selfish can't be selfish anymore. Haven't thought about what you should do for your man. You can't do anything but trample on his dignity. I don't know at all how this woman deserves to be loved.
I am vulgar. I don't lock up my man when he wants to have sex with me. I don't get nothing in return when he loves me. Can't do it. I will not accept his love either. But at least I think I'm fairly responsible for our relationship.
They are inherently unequal love. Of course it will turn the marriage into rubbish. A rope that has been strangled to death. The worst are children.
I really don't know at all how this girl deserves to be loved. Who is kind enough to see this movie review and tell me

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Blue Valentine quotes

  • Cindy: I'm so out of love with you. I've got nothing left for you, nothing, nothing. Nothing, there is nothing here for you.

  • Dean: [Having dinner in the Future room] You're not gonna eat that?

    Cindy: Why don't you do something?

    Dean: What do you mean?

    Cindy: I don't know.

    Dean: What does that mean, "Why don't I do something?"

    Cindy: I don't know. Isn't there something you wanted to do? Isn't there something you wanna do?

    Dean: Like what?

    Cindy: I don't know. You're so good at so many things. You could do anything you wanted to do. You're good at everything that you do. Isn't there something else you wanna do?

    Dean: Than what? Than be your husband? Than being Frankie's dad? What do you want me to do? What-what-what... in your, like, dream scenario of me, like, doing what I'm good at, what would that be?

    Cindy: I don't know. I just... You're so good at so many things. You can do so many things. You have such capacity.

    Dean: For what?

    Cindy: I don't... You can sing, you can draw, you can...

    [chuckles]

    Cindy: dance.

    Dean: [Exhales] Listen, I didn't wanna be somebody's husband, okay? And I didn't wanna be somebody's dad. That wasn't my... goal in life. For some guys it is - wasn't mine. But somehow I've... it was what I wanted. I didn't know that. And it's all I wanna do. I don't want to do anything else. That's what I want to do. I work so I can do that.

    Cindy: I'd like to see you have a job where you don't have to start drinking at 8 o'clock, in the morning, to go to it.

    Dean: No, I have a job that I *can* drink at 8 o'clock in the morning. What a luxury, you know? I get up for work, I have a beer, I go to work, I paint somebody's house - they're excited about it. I come home, I get to be with you. What's... Like, this is the dream.

    Cindy: Doesn't it ever disappoint you?

    Dean: Why? Why would it disappoint me? I could still do whatever I could do.

    Cindy: Because you have all this potential.

    Dean: So what? Why do you have to fucking make money off your potential?

    Cindy: Look, I'm not even saying you have to make money off it. Do you miss it?

    Dean: What does potential mean? What does even potential mean? What does that mean, "potential"? Potential for what? To turn it into what?

    Cindy: We rarely sit down and have an adult conversation because every time we do... you take what I say and turn it around into something that I didn't mean. You just... twist it. Start blabbing. Blah-blah-blah-blah-blah.

    Dean: If you're not interested in what I have to say, then maybe I just shouldn't say anything.

    Cindy: [laughs]