A dazed life creates a numb human being

Kathryne 2022-02-27 08:01:54

First of all, I have to admit that I watched this film because it was an erotic film, but after seeing it, its tangled relationship and almost desperate plot made me have to think: what made such a movie Numb people?
The protagonist of the film, Ali, is a doctor. He is very numb to the affairs around him. Perhaps it is his professional habit, or perhaps he has seen the life and death of one more person, which causes his spiritual world to be very empty, and he does not understand that he lives in this world. What's the point of. But there is one thing that guides him in these times, and that is sex. The pleasure that sex brings to him allows him to forget the world without thinking too much. So, sex became a part of his life, every night, going to a bar, going to bed, going to bed, and so on. In his heart, as long as he could not hurt both parties, having sex with a strange woman on a lonely night would not only comply with his desires, but would not affect the lives of both parties, this approach could not be called immoral at all. Because of this, it became his habit to never answer the phone from his ex-lover, until he met Tina, answered the phone and went on a date at the urging of a friend, and everything changed. As a girlfriend of Ali, Tina will not allow her boyfriend to fool around with other women outside. But Ali couldn't resist the temptation, and later even developed that he had sex with Tina's friend Elona. After Tina found out, the conflict between them broke out, and Tina proposed to break up. However, Ali is not comfortable after returning to his previous life. On the contrary, after sleeping with a married woman, after her husband attacked him, he suddenly felt that that life was meaningless. The happy times made him long to go back to the past. Then, he found Tina, offered to reconcile with her and made up his mind to change himself. Tina was very happy about it and agreed to return to Ali. But the reality did not develop as Ali imagined. When he got along with Tina's friends, he found that there was not much love in their interactions, but after getting used to living with each other, he found that he did not fall in love with Tina. After he couldn't be alone with Tina, he broke up with his girlfriend, and after his girlfriend exposed their chaotic life and everyone's false relationship at his friend's wedding in desperation, Ali was also desperate and chose to Leave. The film ends with Tina giving birth and raising him alone, Elona becoming a teacher, and Ali finding Hannah at church, and the two walk toward each other.
The series of undisciplined and chaotic relationships described in this film reflects that in today's society, many young people lose themselves in their interactions with the opposite sex, and cannot tell whether their relationship with their girlfriend is love or habit, and the relationship between them is love. Are girlfriends being together because of sex or love, and how young people find and strive for their goals in life when their values ​​are immature. In my opinion, the key to solving this problem is how to find joy in life. A person, in order to be free from numbness, must enrich his life experience. For example, when you are suddenly lonely, go out for a walk, go shopping, play basketball, listen to music, write articles, and read books. Use these methods to soothe your emotions as much as possible, and do things that you have never done that are stimulating and harmless. Only by constantly enriching ourselves can we expel loneliness and numbness from our body and mind, and usher in a fulfilling life, instead of just having sex and loneliness.

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