Born out of shame, it's okay to die.

Jude 2022-12-19 18:46:57

The heroine repeatedly mentioned her mother who had no memory of AIDS, and her father who had no feelings for AIDS.

The heroine is not ashamed to mention her family, because she is already naked on the street, and there is nothing to cover and whitewash.

Under normal circumstances, when ordinary people reach this stage, they can basically only guarantee their survival, and they can't care about courtesy and honor.

This is only the usual situation, but some early-maturing, talented and talented warriors are detached from ordinary people, detached from ordinary people.

This film is an old film. Since my high school teacher recommended it, I watched it intermittently, and I watched it piece by piece more than 5 or 6 times. In the beginning, it was used for inspiration, but gradually it became a channel for venting emotions. It's a bit like when I'm unhappy, seeing someone who is actually worse off than me, and finally after some twists and turns, the rain and the sky are clear, and the depression is completely gone.

Watching this movie a few days ago, I suddenly felt some new insights. I jumped out of the limitation of a crow becoming a phoenix. I suddenly felt that I no longer regarded this movie as a simple inspirational movie, although it actually only has this effect. .

There are two kinds of people in the world who can achieve great things, those who are born very well and those who are born very badly.

From a very good background, he has abundant resources and a wide network of contacts. As long as he is not A Dou, he has some self-esteem and self-confidence. Telling stories can also stand a good job.

Those with a bad background are ashamed of their own background, and have more desire and determination to succeed than others. Due to the lack of resources, we can only work harder and more desperately than others and ignore all love, leisure and entertainment, and desperately absorb nutrients in the lack of environment. Just like the sea buckthorn in the desert, it can only maintain its own survival by spreading its roots in the barren sandy soil. Over time, you will find that the roots of sea buckthorn have spread all over the desert.

And the relatives in the middle section may live more at the bottom of the earth. Every day I think about how to make a fortune, but I still live step by step every day, or survive. Holding a different salary that is not itchy, in fact, bears the highest tax in the world. If there is no evil trend of kidnapping his wife and killing his son, I am afraid that he will not release a single P in his life. When someone asks how things are going, the most common answer is, "It's okay."

Well, it's okay. I can live, but I can't say how good it is.

There is a friend who has finished his secondary school in installments, and is still in night school. computer maintenance. Now working as a director of a Fortune 500 company in the South. In the early days, friends asked him about the situation at home, and he was always ashamed to answer. Now, he answered calmly, saying that if I had described it to you in detail at the time, you would definitely be crying poor because I wanted to borrow money. In fact, my family is really that poor. How dare I speak.

Now every time I think of this friend, plus what I have seen and heard over the years. The rise of many young entrepreneurs has to do with being uneasy about the status quo. Often, their status quo is different from that of the average person. That is not the difference between the quality of life and the poor, it is the difference between life and death.

If you had asked them how they were doing at the time, they would never have answered "okay".

That small group of people, with the strongest sense of shame, want to get rid of the status quo and get rid of their own predicament, like drowning people, they want to surface and take a breath. They are ashamed of their family, their origin, and even more ashamed of their ignorance. So they fight harder than others, work harder than others, and even some perverted and deformed. Even the personality is a little unsound, but, obviously, there are achievements in doing so.

Such accumulation has made them leap from being ashamed to talk about their situation to disdainful to answer "how are you doing recently" with "okay".








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Homeless to Harvard: The Liz Murray Story quotes

  • Chris: I don't want to go to school. I don't belong there and neither do you.

    Liz Murray: Yes, I do.

    Chris: You think they let people like us in to Harvard?

  • Liz Murray: I loved my mother, so much. She was a drug addict. She was an alcoholic. She was legally blind. She was a schizophrenic. But I never forgot, that she did love me. Even if, if she did. All the time. All the time. All the... All the time.