The man who was married three times

Bennie 2022-03-22 09:02:55

How should a person live his life? What do you think is the most important thing in life? Maybe some people think it's career, family, or love, maybe there are many more, everyone is different. For me, at present, it should be some small dreams that are more likely to be realized, and the small dreams that can be fought for are not unattainable.

The protagonist Barney in the Canadian investment film "The Life of Barney" that I watched at noon, after I watched the whole film, I felt that the most important thing in his life should be his wife, the last one, his favorite wife . Since Barney's life development is relatively smooth, he does not give the impression that he has experienced too many setbacks, has a stable family, and loves his father who often imparts his life experiences. Ni's life is almost complete.

Barney's first wife, a young woman who was a bit reckless and dissolute, had a somewhat complicated or seemingly confusing past. She should have been such an eccentric woman who played art, and the two of them got married. The reason is that the child is married, but it turns out that the child is not healthy. The most important thing is that the child belongs to someone else, and that "other" is one of Barney's friends. After learning the truth, Barney was very angry and disappointed. And the rebellious woman was also afraid of accepting and unable to save the consequences of this deception, and finally committed suicide and lost her life, leaving a bold painting about the angle between lovers.

A few years later, Barney is a few years older, and his career is becoming more and more mature. People who care about him take the initiative to introduce him to a partner. The person he likes, the protagonist just accepts the new heroine who is more educated and proud than him. At the same time, he can't stand the superior father-in-law who despise him and his father. The wedding night was lively and crazy. At the end of the night, he was deeply attracted by an elegant woman. He fell in love at first sight, as if he was completely oblivious to his identity as a groom. He even made an escape from marriage and made a confession to the woman. , but was later persuaded to return. Since then, Barney has lived a peaceful married life on the surface, but his heart has always been obsessed with the woman who fell in love with the wedding night. After trying to endure the new marriage for a while, when something went wrong, he finally asked for a divorce.

At that time, another friend of Barney's literary circle found him. After not seeing him for a few years, the man became an addict. He was lethargic and confused. Barney gradually neglected his wife. I bumped into Zheng Zheng, so this became the key reason for the divorce request. Barney felt betrayed by his friend for the second time, and he was in a very bad mood. After his wife left, he had an argument with the man, and the man also Years later, Barney's last moments before his friend's death often come to mind after his unexpected death due to agitated emotions.

After the successful divorce and becoming a free man, the first thing Barney has to do is, of course, to find Miriam, his dream lover, and pursue it painstakingly. Moved, agreed to his proposal, and soon the two held a wedding. And this time the marriage makes people really feel that this is like a wedding in life, the picture of two people who have found the right people finally come together. After the marriage, the two were very happy, and soon they had their first child, a boy, and then a second, a daughter. For more than ten years, the family of four has lived a happy family life, warm and joyful. The man works in television and has risen to a certain leadership position over the years, while the woman works in radio and has become a successful and professional radio host over the years. It looks like it's a pretty nice and happy family with few flaws.

But maybe it's been a long time, everyone is getting older, and the two sides have unknowingly developed some sense of boredom. The wife of this family became more and more indifferent, and the husband became more tired and lonely. As a result, there was a problem and he left. The woman married someone else, and the man became ill, and began to forget a lot of things. During a dinner together, ex-wife Miriam asked if they could be friends, Barney said no, and Miriam said to Barney, if you need me, I'll be there for you. Seeing this place makes people feel a little depressed, why can't the generous and humorous Barney keep his love? Each of his wives has a history of being abducted. Is there something wrong with him, and he doesn't seem to be able to see where there is a problem with him. Maybe it's because he looks kind and not easy to get angry, so it will cause others to be easily deceived or betrayed. Maybe it's because of the saying "people who are kind are deceived by others", but I really don't know why.

Barney's life is basically very successful in his career. He is a well-known TV producer. In his family, he adheres to moral beliefs. He is a filial son and a kind father, and he is not very picky about his wife. In his later years, he was plagued by disease. The fly in the ointment is that I can't grow old with my most beloved wife, I didn't leave this world with my wife's company, I was getting old day by day in the loneliness of illness, and I lived the last days of my life in a miserable way. The sour taste of being accompanied by children, but not having a lover, must not be too pleasant. But at the end of the movie, when Barney passed away, Miriam went to see him. The tombstone was engraved with the names of the two people. It was the tombstone where they were buried together. Panofsky"), although separated, but his wife chose to be buried with him after her death, which can be considered a consolation.

I think the most wonderful thing about Barney's life is that he has been loving, pursuing love, and enduring everything. This man who has been married three times, his life style is full of bright colors that make people envious.

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  • Izzy: You're married to a well-bred woman who is loaded, who makes a nice, flaky kugel, has a beautiful rack... and many successful marriages have been built on far less.

  • Miriam: Are you out of your mind?

    Barney Panofsky: No! I'm bent over backwards in love!